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2 of my friends are divorced or just never got married. They are having the hardest time finding someone worth dating.
All the guys want is sex and the girls wants love and a relationship!
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Sadly most guys’ don’t want a girl that has kids already , especially these days , He will have sex with her and have fun with her but the chances of him committing to her is very slim unless he has kids of his own , Why single parents shouldn’t introduce their kids to someone new until they know that person is on it for the long haul , I have kids as well and out of respect to a girl I will be honest with her that I do have kids and let her know she will not meet my kids until I know she is in it for the long haul , main reason is because kids get attached quickly to someone new and if that someone new changes their mind about being in a relationship with you the kids hurt as well, why I don’t introduce a girl to my kids right away and don’t expect her to take care of my kids
No, Been there done that will never repeat. I do not need such drama and trauma in my life and the overall truth is those relationships come with huge amounts of baggage I do not want.
I will avoid all single mothers like a plague unless their children are grown and living on their own and not holding onto her leg like a child. The truth is no matter how wonderful she is, it is highly likely the ex will always be a problem and the children will have issues with new partners.
While yes there are examples of successful relationships, My experience has been opposite and I see no benefit to me other than a warm body which I can enjoy casually dating and not have any financial burdens that were not of my making.
I doubt the kids are the issue. My friends and I never had a problem finding men with children and their fathers in our lives. Even with men who don't like kids, they'll usually still date the woman they really like as long as she's not forcing the kids on him.
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Hell no. Their situation is way too chaotic and filled with drama.
I've only ever dated a girl I could see a permanent relationship with. I'd date a single mum but ONLY if she treats the child's father with respect as the father of her child.
If she badmouths him in front of the child once it's over. If she's using the child to score points or not allowing him access to his child it's over.
Because that's how she's going to be talking about me and treating me if we split and there's a child involved.
I'd go further: I'd want to get to know the father myself because I'd be coming in as his surrogate so I want to be certain he's who she says he is. And if he turns out to be a decent guy and it just didn't work for them - which happens - no problem. I'd encourage him to be the primary male role model for his kid.
If she's made his life miserable and withheld access to the child etc then I'll not only leave her, I'll petition the judge for him.
Just punch in the words "baby daddy" on FB and do a search for posts. I just did. Thousands upon thousands of women who've made the same kind of posts over and over and over and over and over and over... about "fk day niggaa" or "I'ma slap day hoe" or "day nigggaaa ain't shitt". I mean ONCE SEARCH that takes less than 3 seconds, brings up THOUSANDS OF THESE POSTS. And each one of them has dozens of different "baby mommas" on them... typing THE SAME GIBBERISH, along with endless threats of violence👀😦So no, hell no, uh uh, gth away from me, I don't want any of that garbage in my area code.🤝
I think it might be challenging today to single mom with the children's father still in the picture. I did briefly date a single mom when I was recently out of college. Nothing ever got very serious because I was moving out of state, but the babies father was not in the picture at all.
Currently I wouldn´t date a woman with a child because I don´t see myself as a father yet.
But I can´t say that I would never date a single mum to me a limit would just be the question of how well her contact to a baby dad is because if they had a on and off relationship I would say no. I´d rather prefer no other guy to be involved.
Shouldn't have children out of wedlock and "baby daddy" sounds like yesterday's ghetto jive.
We aren't allowed to do things the lion way... i. e. kill the children first.
So that'd be a no.
Mostly no, I would not. But I dont really know for sure. If I do happen to find one I'm really into, maybe 1 kid might try it. But more kids mostly like nope !
Women with kids have already had their fun, got their biological needs met (without you) and their expectations are SKY HIGH. It's like you're choosing to be a cuck.
Absolutely a hard pass for me.
"All the guys want is sex and the girls wants love and a relationship!"
Honestly that sounds like most guys whether the girl has children or not.
The baby daddy is what gives me pause. Those can be so much drama.
Nope. The only ones I have known made very poor decisions in the choice of the partner that have left her as a single mom, with no help whatsoever in taking care of the kids and have not paid child support because, they gave up their parental rights.
No, Most guys dont want to date single mothers. Its not because they are bad because they aren't. Its the possibility of attachment with the kids.
This is from personal experience. I dated a single mom once. Things were good, Her kid, and i got along famously. Not only did it break my heart when it was over between me and her, it broke my heart because i lost her son too. Ever since that situation i felt it was not worth having my heart broken twice.
Depends how old the kids are. 16-18, sure. 3-5 nope.
Not likely. The only exception would be if her ex husband died or left his family. Most women who end up single mothers are that way due to bad choices. Not someone I would take the risk on when she already has kids.
No. Dating a single mother is unacceptable to me and I am sure most other quality (not desperate and pathetic) men would agree.
Please introduce them to me; I'd very much enjoy that kind of arrangement. Thank you very much.
Yes, I would love to date a woman with children, it would be like having a family again
Sex is just a reflection of love...
Relationship is all about give n take she can't say "i want" but she should say "what I willl give" in relationship.
I would if she doesn't have a baby dad in the picture. Like he is not coming back or trying to contact her or the kid.
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