Were they hitting on me?

[Anonymous]

At work, a guy walked up to me gave me a fist bump and told me I was so pretty. He never flirted with me, he just diverted his attention toward my other other coworkers next to me, talking to them. I've also had another guy who seemed bored talking to me, ended up calling me a beautiful girl loudly in front of everyone. Prior to this, no flirty energy. I've had another guy who said I looked cute and he didn't know why I could still be single. I honestly have no idea... people just compliment me but never show any interest in me.

[Hardon-Collider]

They were making a move, trying to connect with you. But that impulse is one of two things. It's either a cold, calculating desire, a wish to form a useful alliance or a contract, which is a very Ahrimanic drive. Or it's a warm, heart-driven desire, an impulse from the life-body to connect with another soul, which is a Luciferic drive. The question isn't whether they 'hit on' you, but what kind of force you were subjected to. One is for utility, the other is for life.

[Asker]

they weren't trying to connect. it was just a compliment.

[Anonymous]

I have the same problem. I never know if a girl is being nice, or she is hitting on me.

[Anonymous]

The fist bump was friend behavior, but those other 2 might of been flirting

[spartan55]

Probably because your lack of humility.