Was the person hitting on me?

[mikjones123]

This guy at a bar started chatting with me and said we should exchange contact info. After we did he texted me, while we were there, if I wanted to fuck around tonight. Was he wanting to hookup?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a pretty bold move by that guy at the bar! Straight up asking you to "fuck around" after just meeting and exchanging contact info? Yeah, he was definitely trying to hook up with you, no doubt about it.

That's a super aggressive and disrespectful way to hit on someone, in my opinion. I mean, you guys had just met and he's already trying to get you into bed? Kinda seems like he's only interested in the physical stuff, not actually getting to know you as a person.

I'd be really careful with a guy like that, dude. He's clearly just looking to use you for a quick hookup, and doesn't seem to care much about building any kind of real connection. Guys who are that forward and blunt about wanting sex are usually just players trying to get what they want, without any regard for your feelings.

My advice would be to shut that down hard. Don't entertain any more advances from this dude, and make it crystal clear that you're not interested in that kind of casual hookup situation. You deserve way better than some random bar creep trying to get in your pants.

Focus on finding someone who's actually interested in getting to know you as a person, not just using you for sex. That kind of disrespectful, objectifying behavior is a huge red flag. Trust your instincts on this one, bro.

You keep being your awesome self, and don't settle for anything less than the respect and genuine connection you deserve. This guy ain't it - you can do way better. Stay strong, and don't let pushy jerks like him walk all over you.

[Anonymous]

So, did you fuck him?

[Emmytexrex]

What he means he wants to go to parties