I was the only girl at his party with 6 of his male friends, what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

Hey I (26F) have a strong with a guy (27M), we had a brief relationship a year ago and still remained friends. Me and him felt flirty lately, he is single as well I am, be also bought a house and did a small party. He invited me with 6 of his male friends, closest ones. No other girl. But he has girls he was intimate with lately. We did not have anything lately but I'm wondering... What does it mean from him? Does it have any significant meaning? Is it friendzoning or the opposite? I was confident, participated in games, etc. he was warm. And we flirted again. He was not treating me like others though, they all treated me in a special way.

But I'm not sure... Help please

Updates

9 mo

Correcting typo in the first sentence: "I have a story with this guy", not "strong" lol

[BriamG22]

Easiest solution, ask him out for coffee, ask him how he feels and what he wants and communicate to him what you want as well.

From what you've shared it seems clear that he still has feelings for you, this is evidenced by the flirting and the invite.

My best friend is a girl. We 'flirt' but there's no tension, it's playful and it's usually followed by us bashing/insulting one another. If this is not how it was for you two then you don't have to worry about the friend zone.

Now you just need to clarify what he wants and what you want. There's feelings there but do you both want to pursue it? Talk to him about it.

[spartan55]

What do you mean they 'treated you in a special way'... it was a house warming party ffs.

[Zionne]

It sounds like you stand out to him, inviting you as the only woman among his close friends likely means he feels comfortable and values your presence. The flirting and special treatment suggest there’s still attraction, not friendzoning. If you’re curious, keep things light but open the door for one-on-one time to see if he makes a move.

[HollyK21]

You should ask him what his intentions are for talking to you rather than stumbling along blindly not knowing where you stand. Why waste time flirting and chatting, why risk the disappointment of rejection, when this could all be avoided with a simple, adult conversation?

[Nikki1989]

It means he has a weak, unbalanced social circle.

[lorenzomichael]

It just means that he likes you and considers you a good friend like he does with his male friends I’m glad to hear you all had a great time. That was the way he wanted it.

[slatyb]

That seems weird as fuck. Was he hoping to share you? Why weren't the other girlfriends invited?

[Iron_Man]

Don’t do that you’re outnumbered you don’t know these

[Asker]

I went there, what do you mean?

[Iron_Man]

all those guys and you’re the only one girl be careful if you know what I mean they’re Thirsty I’ve never seen a party like that before.

[MasterKS]

future gangbang.