Why does he do that 😑?

[Anonymous]

He is my colleague. I met him from two years and now it is our 5th semester. First time I was looking at my TA she was cute so I was hearing her with a smile on my face then I caught him Infront of me looking at me and smile with closed, focused eyes. I got shy then I looked away. I forgot him then after something silly happened then I laughed hard so much with my friend silently then while laughing I moved my face then our eyes met. I got shocked that he was very happy really a very broad smile looking at me it was first time for me to get that reaction so I stopped laughing and got shy. After that one time I was crying and my friend was trying to calm me then I noticed someone like looking behind a wall then I noticed he was him looking at me and then speaking to his best friend. A week after, me and my friends was laughing on my shyness cause my face was red then I noticed his bestie was stalking me all that time, he immediately went to tell him what happened. Another time I was buying something from small open shop then I noticed him from far looking at me. I don't care then just seconds he came to the same place? And stand next to me I acted like I don't know you and continued what I do. After we went up to the class he was sitting something near me, my friend was sick so I just checked if she is fine from my place and really was afraid about her then when I ended talking with looking again at my stuffs I noticed he was looking at me that time. Second year, we were having a test in a computer hall so you know every device has its barrier from others. Then suddenly someone jumped on my barrier my heart got in my foot really from my shock it was him and his bestie. I didn't look at them but I was near to cry from my shock really. Second semester I was walking in the corridor with my friend enjoying talking with each other then I noticed him sitting then he smiled. Now in this semester he always looking behind him after lectures and look away if I catch him

[Abbycado]

I stopped reading after you said you’ve known him for two years.

If you’ve known him that long and don’t know the answer, how do you think we would know?

[HollyK21]

I know she’s going to read this and ignore it, but she could also just ask him. Whenever I mention that to anons, like why don’t you just ask? They never respond because there’s no good reason.

[Asker]

Because really I don't know. We respect our barriers in our community especially it is not easy to boys talk to girls. And I am so shy really I never had a relationship. I always stuck to my study so I never get this situations and I fear being attached for wrong reasons

[HollyK21]

You may be shy but you’re also an adult, and there’s really no need to be playing these games. If asking him how he feels about you means disrespecting your community barriers, then it sounds like you shouldn’t be taking interest in any man, period. Sounds more like these are excuses to wait around for him to approach you first.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 Yeah I can't approach him or any man because like I said before it is disrespectful and also most men don't like women to do that they like to take the step and to be honest yeah I want him to approach because I fear my feelings grown for wrong person, I am now in struggle between No he doesn't like you just study and throw this teenage feelings and my sense and feelings especially many time my feelings are right and also situations happened more and more even I wish if I not see him and happy I don't see him finally then I saw him when I open the door 🙂🙂🙂

[HollyK21]

Are you new here? Lol literally all you need to do is scroll, there’s usually at least one post daily where men want women to approach first. They don’t see it as disrespectful at all, so I guess it’s just your community? In any case it sounds like you should just move on and settle into single life.

[HollyK21]

@Abbycado are you buying this? It just sounds like made up excuses.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 You see he likes me? I don't know if he likes me or not and yeah like I said in my community it is disrespectful cuz religious reasons the only good thing to communicate is getting engaged officially
And that mean he suffered to get you and I want that. Gazes and smiles aren't enough for me but what I fear that it all these situations was not for me was just he saw me cute or something like that but for two years?
I just

[HollyK21]

I never said he liked you, how would I know? How would anyone on this site know? It’s ridiculous to be asking anyone other than him anyway because what difference would it make to have in your head that he likes you, yet nothing is going to happen IRL.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 So it is better to me to ignore these situations and don't think about them If I want that official?

[HollyK21]

Yes ma’am.

[Anonymous]

He is unreasonable I guess.

[spartan55]

Great story bro.