So there is this guy I personally never met and haven’t even spoke too but lately I’ve been feeling weird about it/him?

[Anonymous]

Like today it happened again I haven’t spoke or anything but from distance I felt his presence/glance and I can’t be sure bc he could have been looking at someone else or near me and I might be overthinking like today I start feeling weird in my stomach and start saying in my mind Its too good to be true bc that guy is cute and I know I’m out of his league so I don’t want to even waist time thinking about him, than weeks and months earlier I noticed the same thing bc I start thinking about him a again once again not even meeting and talking to him just seeing him from distance how can I just let this go and stop imagining things?

[QuineJessica]

I think it's a temporary crush that usually goes away after three days, if not then maybe try talking to him. 50/50 maybe he'll turn out to be a good person and a relationship option, or maybe just another asshole. We'll never know until we try

[Asker]

Hahahaha yea but why should I talk to him should be first to approach me

[QuineJessica]

Sometimes it's worth taking the first step, just saying "Hello" is enough

[Asker]

I think I might be overthinking

[Nikki1989]

The only way to “let this go” and stop imagining things is to replace the ambiguity with clarity or to create a definitive stop to the thought cycle.

[Anonymous]

Directly engage him. You don't want to think about what could have been based on your inaction, trust me. Have your friend or something ask him directly of your too nervous.

[Asker]

Why you say I need to engage into it?

[Asker]

Ya don’t think im imagining this

[Opinion Owner]

You could be. It better to get a conclusion, one way or another.

[Asker]

Or just move on and let it go

[Opinion Owner]

Not always.