Was this a set up by his friend bc he likes me?

[Anonymous]

So basically there’s this boy in my class I really like we haven’t talked but we make a lot of eye contact, we’be held eye contact for 5 seconds before, we look at each other a lot, and we hold eye contact and I’ll smile at him and he’ll smile back really big and stuff. But anyone his bestfriend lets call his bestfriend red, and lets call the guy I like blue. so basically red likes my best friend and they’re talking or whatever and so basically red was teasing my friend and red said “l owe you money we should do something” and so she was like “what should we do” and so red said “let’s go to a steak house and I bring your friend and I bring my friend” and so basically he was like “I’m bringing blue” and my friend said “blue huh” and he was like “yes blue” and so he said “dont bring this girl (our other friend)” and so my best friend was like “which friend should I bring” and he said bring me. I’m guessing that blue and red planned this? And we’re setting me up bc blue likes me?

[Amy_Mi]

It’s possible, but not guaranteed.

Sometimes friends notice mutual attraction and try to create opportunities, while other times it’s just coincidental.

Look at how Blue acts around you consistent eye contact, smiling, and attention are stronger indicators than the setup itself.

Stay relaxed, enjoy the interaction, and let things unfold naturally.

[Alex-Snow]

They have obviously talked about it and maybe have done a little planning. A double date can be fun. If you like "blue" go for it or ask him out separately. Do you follow him on socials?

[Asker]

That’s what I’m thinking! I think they obviously planned it out and he told his friend to set it up. He ended up having something come up and so did my friend so it ended up not happening but I think he likes me and he definitely told him to do so

[Alex-Snow]

I agree with u. Maybe do not get too hung-up on what Red has to do with things and just focus on ur friendship (maybe more) with Blue. Message me if u want to chat about it more

[Alex-Snow]

How old is blue?

[spartan55]

Maybe? Would it make a difference?

[Asker]

Yes kinda because I feel like blue is clearly talking to red about me then like red knows blue likes me so he is trying to set it up

[spartan55]

Okay... why is that a problem?

[Asker]

No like I’m just wondering if that’s why

[spartan55]

So why would it make a difference?

[Anonymous]

Why do u like blue

[Asker]

Because he’s a sweet kid and he’s cute

[Opinion Owner]

That’s it?

[Opinion Owner]

You have never even spoken to him

[Asker]

No but I don’t need to go into depth of why I like him

[Opinion Owner]

U have never even spoken to him? Then u don’t think he likes u. Kindly don’t be a creep

[Asker]

Bless your heart. I pray that god reveals himself to you