Is he trying to just share me with his friend?

[Anonymous]

the guy I’m seeing let’s call him (R) and his friend (M). (R) set me up with (M) back in October, because me and (R) dated but it went to shit. me and (M) spoke for a month, never flirted nothing really happened, but he was into me, i think. but i confessed my feelings to (R) and we decided to try again so I started ignoring his friend (M) so I send (R) sexts, nowdays since it’s been a few months after we worked it out. not nudes but dirty describing what I’d do to him texts.
his friend (M) texts me a day later
“WHAT THAT THANG DO!! YOU MUST HAVE THAT FIRE BECAUSE MY N*GGA BE SPRUNG ON YOU!!”
I said to (R) : “can you stop showing your friends. Why did I get a message saying “what that thang do” yesterday. Stop telling them pls”
he said
“I didn’t show him.. I wasn’t even really talking to him when he sent you that message... no ones had my phone or anything.”
my theory is he shown him it and the friend insisted on messaging me and he didn’t want to argue over me so he just let him go ahead?

[chriscdi]

this is sketchy, sounds like something is going on here because normally there's a bro code and a lot of the times guys wouldn't let that slide with their friends hitting up the girl that a friend is interested in unless its all planned

[Asker]

hmmm... do you think it’s worth confronting him or should I just see how it plays out. I’ve not responded to the friend in months, so you’d think he would’ve told his friend to stop trying now bc it’s making them both look sketchy

[chriscdi]

thats ehat im saying, sounds to me like they are competing against each other to either cuff you or fuck you, ill let you decide what you wanna do but im glad your eyes are open 💯

[Asker]

when one already has me & i’ve told him several times i like him, and the other hasn’t even gotten as much as a reply lately. clearly, he isn’t looking at me as “gf material” & the friend probably knows this which is why he’s so comfortable with texting me like that. I think I’ll go ghost & find someone else. They gotta realise I’m not disposable

[chriscdi]

i like you, you got a good mindset, i respect it, do what you gotta do missy

[SimpleShai]

You need to stop talking to both. They don’t have your best interest or respect you. They’re both lying. He showed them the messages or implied what you’ve been texting to brag or whatever. They might be betting or plotting on you. Drop them both. If you’re smart

[20yearsolder]

I think he shared your messages. My opinion, he doesn't deserve your sexts. His friend isn't much of a friend if he's trying to get into your panties. Do you enjoy sexting

[Gedaria]

You must be enjoying this , I find it so much fun. I find it so arousing.
I love it when things like this happens.

[spartan55]

Maybe M (must stand for moron) just knew you were talking... and didn't show him anything.