Guys, Why would my guy friend ask me to watch him masterbate all of a sudden?

[Prairie_Flow3r]

So for context, he's way more sexually experienced than I am, and has a few girls he gets with on the regular on speed dial, yet he messaged me all of a sudden and told me he desperately needs to release a loaf because it's painful for him to have that build up and begged me to face Time him while he did. I still don't know how to respond to this since we've been good friends for quite sometime and I'd hate for this to ruin our friendship.

[Anonymous]

Seems like he is hyper sexual and pent up on releasing his load.

If you feel uncomfortable with that request or not wanting to engage in that type of activity with him, even casually then set that boundary now. It won’t end your friendship or at least should because you are good friends.

Set that boundary now. Don’t let it ruin anything or get weird.

I wouldn’t ask my long term friends to facetime to do that unless slowly built up to it.
The fact he hasn’t “gotten with you” and knows you aren’t that sexually experienced should’ve told him to not do that. Get some of his other lady friends on speed dial to do it.

[bowenw]

He just wanted someone to watch and/or he is hoping you will want to have sex with him. The was lying when he said the buildup is painful. That was part of the con to get you to watch. He is the one that is risking ruining the friendship by asking you to watch.

[Prairie_Flow3r]

My thoughts exactly, well that's what I get for think men and women could ever only be long-term friends

[bowenw]

Did you tell him you don't want to see that? It is possible he has feelings for you as more than a friend and why he wanted to convince you to watch.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[slatyb]

Do you want to do this? It's a very odd request. It seems he's attracted to you in some way -- he is fantasizing about you.

[Prairie_Flow3r]

No I don't want to, I feel really weird about it tbh, didn't know he ever saw me like that since he never tried anything with me before

[jahaims]

No way you are that stupid