If a guy has been emotionally entangled with a girl that’s not his girlfriend long term what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

I mean like he started seeing his girlfriend three months before meeting the other girl, but he’s been emotionally entangled with the other girl for over a year what’s that mean about his feelings for both?

Like he’s half in and out with both, won’t leave his girlfriend but can’t give up the other either.

[DryGermanGuy]

It means the forming of a love triangle, which usually implode in spectacular fashion. 🤦‍♂️

[Asker]

Oh no, but is it really possible to like other girl for so long as having a girlfriend? I mean it’s been a year, what’s that say about his feelings for both of them?

[DryGermanGuy]

As Einstein said, human stupidity is infinite, which means anything is possible. 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

lol thanks too true

[BarryLiverstone]

Usually means he’s more attracted to one than the other. But he’s got a reputation to uphold. The two girls likely will not get along and see the other as competition.

[Asker]

So which one is he more attracted to? I mean if he were happy with the girlfriend why keep looking for the other girl? Reputation? You mean as a good boyfriend?

[BarryLiverstone]

Reputation is making correct choices in the eyes of society. Not being judged as a scum bag.

You tell me. I have no idea what each girl looks like but suspect he has some level of attraction to each. Yet one def is more attractive.

[BarryLiverstone]

Also he’s only known his girlfriend for 3 months now so it’s a recent relationship

[Asker]

Sorry so he met his girlfriend 3 months earlier than the other girl but has now been seeing his girlfriend for a year, but within that time he’s been blowing hot and cold with the other girl. The girlfriend is like girl next door, cute sporty and nice. The other girl is more naturally beautiful, stands out of a crowd, more edgy and probably he finds her more attractive,, but then he’d already committed tot eh girlfriend

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s complicated. Because it’s like he’s been dating 2 girls for a year. Are you sure it’s just been two? Feel free to follow me if you want help, I don't know if you are the friend or. It sounds like he may be more attracted to the friend but if he’s hot and cold that’s to consider. I’d like to know more about why he wanted a girlfriend

[Asker]

Thanks , He came out of a divorce and was on his own for a while 8 months. I think maybe for companionship and to get over the divorce maybe you mean you think he’s more attracted to the other girl (not his girlfriend)? But at the same time he’s still with the girlfriend, yes it is complicated. I am the friend of the other girl. He and her both also work together

[BarryLiverstone]

Working together only adds to the complications…

[Asker]

Yes probably was it’s been going on for a year as they see each other daily

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you also work with them? Go ahead and follow me as I am wondering what he’s up to

[BarryLiverstone]

If he’s already committed, then by his reputation he can’t date the coworker. Even if she likes him

[beenherebefore]

Means he doesn't respect you and just wants to have fun with both.

[Anonymous]

He's put himself in a tough situation. Personally, I would go with the girl who I have an emotional entanglement with. I have one of those now, so I understand the burden of not being able to address it.

[jahaims]

It means they both want validation but aren't emotionally healthy enough for a healthy relationship

[spartan55]

It means avoid that clown

[serious]

This is really messed up.