Why does he act like this?

[Anonymous]

Slept with a guy almost 6 months ago. He was a acquaintance. The sex was great very intimate, I knew it was just sex and that’s it. This happened while I was visiting the east coast, anyways he kept in contact cool. He monitors everything I do, and remembers everything I post them tries to bring up and throw it in my face.

I’m in my mid twenties, beautiful with no kids so I like to travel! I recently went to ATL and there were guys in my pictures which were friends and he made it a point to heart every story that had the guy in them? He’s very short and dismissive towards me yet gets jelly and in his feelings for no reason. I also mentioned how I was going out of town this weekend and he made a comment saying “what guy is flying you out this time, I know what you do”… like I’m some kind of escort that just gives my body out? I can’t just take a trip with some of my girlfriends without it being just that?

I’m moving to his area soon due to family and he withholds information about the state…. If he’s not in on my move or apart of it he doesn’t give advice. I told him that a friend told me about the traffic there and what part of town I should live in to avoid it. He then said ooo “so you’re trying to move over there by him”….

Why do men act this way I’m not your woman, we’re not together, you don’t want anything serious.. So you shouldn’t care. It’s like he watches my life so carefully and remembers every trip, every man that has been on my camera etc Yes I know y’all are going to tell me to just block him.

[DonaldDarko]

We evolved to take a mate, sex is serious business or it was. In our brave new world society its just an extreme handshake. But the old instincts are still there, on some primal level he considers you his mate. Not that other men are hung up that you've had sex with but some of them surly might be. Women do this to, they have sex with a man and wonder why they developed feelings for him. Personally I think this is all some evolutionary next step. If humanity doesn't develop some kind of artificial means of reproduction extinction may be the result.

[Berethor]

Real men are territorial, he humped you so you his, even if you are not official couple.

[Imjustagirl1520]

No she’s not. And no you’re not, stop being a creep.

[blackeagle007]

@Imjustagirl1520 you again? I thought gag deleted you

[Berethor]

@blackeagle007 she open new account to harass men, it hard to get rid of her.

[blackeagle007]

You’re not wrong. Trolls do what it takes to exist

[Imjustagirl1520]

who r u again?

[MissSunshine2]

Don’t say anything to him about this, but it sounds possible that he’s mentally disturbed and you could end up being stalked unless you block him on everything and cut contact. I speak from personal past experience with someone, a guy whose behaviour was similar to this. I don’t think you’re in danger at this point in time. So there’s no need to be afraid or overly hypervigilant. But you might need to see a trauma counsellor, at least for a while.

[On_cloud_wine]

Even though though you’re not in a serious relationship, he finds other guys in your life a threat because maybe he almost fantasized about being with you.
I’m going through something similar.. so I’ve been watching 100’s of YouTube channels on his distant awkward fight or flight behavior..

[HollyK21]

I don’t know why you’d waste time doing all that back and forth with someone who was supposed to be only a hook up. He feels like he can say what he does or act how he does because you entertain it.

[jahaims]

He is immature. People who have casual sex like you two are very immature

[Bloodparadise]

Do you slow down time by being dramatic

[qwerty2469]

You sound like a tramp. I think he is on to you.