Friends with benefits getting jealous?

[Anonymous]

The other day I was spending time with my friends with benefits, and I was on my phone, and he asked me “who was I texting”. And I told him my mom. And he’s always asking about the other guy I’m seeing which I find weird. Is my friends with benefits catching feelings?

[Anonymous]

It’s possible. But I doubt it. Even though you’re not his as far as an actual relationship, to him you belong to him in this friends with benefits situation. So in his mind you belong to him sexually. So if you’re talking to another man there’s a chance he could lose that benefit if you’re talking to another man. Most men don’t catch feelings for girls who we put in the for sex only category. Right now that’s where you’re at. A girl who’s good enough physically speaking to have sex w but not good enough to take home to mom. Again it’s possible, but not likely.

[OneViewpoint]

Is he catching "feelings"? It's gonna happen to the woman or the guy every time. It's a matter of when, not if. This guy doesn't understand that a "friends with benefits" relationship without commitment is inherently an open relationship. Selfish boy wants all the "benefits" with none of the "commitments".

[Screenwriter]

Better clarify with him. I'm sure he can answer his phone when you're with him. You're there for sex, not 20 questions about who you're talking to.

You might have to consider cutting off this relationship if it's not what you signed up for.

[Anonymous]

yes, it is highly likely that your friends with benefits is catching feelings.

Jealousy and curiosity about your romantic life are major signs that a casual arrangement is shifting toward emotional attachment.

[jahaims]

Only immature broken people have friends with benefits

[Asker]

Just because no one wants to be your friends with benefits 😂

[jahaims]

Good job trying to cope. You have a sad life if you think you came out ahead of this exchange.

[HollyK21]

Her response was so immature, and shows exactly why these men won’t officiate things with her. “Well that’s how I like it I don’t mind”, that’s definitely a cope because this guy won’t do anything else but fuck. No woman wants to get used up except a broken one. It’s a very shameful life she’s living, but I guess that’s why she asked anonymously. Embarrassment and all that.

[Asker]

Girl shut up. You don’t even know me in real life. So stop with you assumptions😂😂. Both of you are sad & pathetic & need to find something better to do.

[Asker]

Thinking I’m going to argue with strangers on the internet is crazy😂 . Find something better to do with your time. Matter of fact go read a book you scum.

[HollyK21]

You can’t even speak without an anonymous veil, coward, so why would a give a fuck what you’d have to say or think about me? Hope it’s comfy on your back, seems to be all you’re used up ass is good for. Not my fault, elevate yourself or something. Maybe therapy so you can unpack the trauma from whatever guy hurt you.

[HollyK21]

“Both of you are sad and pathetic” yeah so are the two men you’re screwing lol if not more.

[spartan55]

You wish. He's just a jealous moron. Is he your only option or something?

[OlderAndWiser]

I was 8 years old and I wanted to marry her!