Why does my friends with benefits gets jealous?

[Anonymous]

I used to date a guy, but he was too young and wasn't ready for a committed relationship, so he broke up with me and after a while, we became friends with benefits. At the beginning he wasn't jealous at all, he even said that he was ok with me meeting other guys. But now something has changed. He is way more jealous than when we were together. When i casually talk about other guys in a very innocent way, most of the times he gets jealous, and sometimes he even insults them. Furthemore, I told him that an older collegue of mine (which is ugly, so not a threat for him) likes me and even text me often, he went on and said: "tell him that he should not desire someone' else woman".
I am so confused by this behaviour, i dont know what to think.

[Gaboffe]

you should tell this guy (your friend i mean) that he needs to understand that you're no longer in a relationship with him because he clearly belives otherwise.

and you should tell him that, straight up, no sugar coating, get the point across because if this goes further down the road it'll be worse for you and him.

[TheSpartan]

Because the "friends with benefits" designation is a myth. It doesn't exist.

If you continually have sex with a close friend of the opposite sex, then you're going to develop feelings for them. Period. There are no exceptions to that rule.

[dannymexico90]

Thank you god for saying that. When I hear friends with benefits I laugh. They are casually dating. Not friends with benefits

[TheSpartan]

Thanks for the mho

[TheSpartan]

@dannymexico90 yeah, modernism has driven people crazy.

[nevermoregirl7]

Cut him off. Because he is probably talking to some other girls you don't know about. I had the same thing with an older gentleman. he said he doesn't mind me talking to other men, and then the minute I was honest with him, he put up an attitude. And he wasn't fucking and talking to god knows how many women.

[evelyn26]

You should ask him why he is acting like that. It sounds like jealousy but tell him he has no right because you two are nothing serious. Guys can be so possessive. (Same thing happened to me.)

[Kat203]

you need to let that one go then cause when it's friends with benefit there should be no emotions involved.

[magingary]

I've never seen a friends with benefit thats just that eventually a party develops feelings to the other or it ends up being abusive du ti wrong emotional discharge i really haven't seen or heard of friends with benefits that is just that

[GingerGuy]

Well, you shouldn't talk about other guys with him honestly (why do you?). But, it's likely that he has developed feelings for you, whether he realizes it himself even or not. Maybe doesn't want to admit it?

[SarahsSummer]

he wants more that friends with benefits. Its what usually happens with at least one person in the friends with benefits relationship.

[pbBlaze]

He caught something from you... Feelings ( and maybe herpes, get tested XD jk)

[e_viajero]

Definitely thought you're his. Talk to him, or else end this friends with benefits

[utsav19]

as most people suggest he has got too comfortable and now have set of expectations from you like relationship.. . if you don't want to be in one, clear that out

[KingDio]

he's caught feelings real bad for you and thinks you're he's

[mystintri]

It's called mate guarding. It's an insecurity. He feels he needs to have your devoted attention or there is a crack in the relationship mainframe.

[mystintri]

Shown as: jealousy.

[OddMan]

His behavior is that he likes you and doesn't want to share

[Fk7676]

Are you too dumb to understand?
He has started to like you, duh

[sgrace]

Talk to him, yea he is acting weird. Definitely make sure he knows he's not your main. Just communicate or get rid of him.

[jord0090]

cuz u cn gt dck anywhere anytime fr us we gt wht u give opportunities less so we dog in who ever lets us u know

[magingary]

sorry not true bro there's plenty of pussy way more than dick u just dont have game whats hard is finding someone thats worth fighting for

[Lelaila]

He has caught some feelings for you.

[DerpEastwood]

"friends with benefits" never ends without a scene

[RealDarkeyes]

I think he wants a relationship with you again.

[text3612379292]

hmmm jealousy issues, still immature!!

[Anonymous]

He muat have feelings for you

[Midget_Hug]

Because n00bs