Some years back i made friends with a guy at work called Ollie. He worked with his then girlfriend.
I originally thought she was his big sister as she was always bossing him around and looked annoyed to be in his company.
She was very controlling of him and eventually they broke up. When they broke up he only told me and no one else at work.
We used to talk a lot as we had a lot in common at the time we were both in long term relationships and had similar interests. We always recommend each other little spots to take each other's partners and such.
He started opening up to me in ways he said hed never opened up to anyone. I get this from a lot of men but im very easy to talk to and great at giving advice.
I will amit id always had a little bit of attraction to ollie but I love my partner way to much to ever cheat, no one compares to him and cheating just ain't worth it so eventually as hard as it was me and ollie both kinds unspokenally decided to distance are self from each other. He admitted he liked me but out of respect to my relationship he was backing off.
I told him he's still young and whilst single he needs to find himself and travel. He did exactly that and moved to a new job doing what hed always loved photography now he's super successful and im really happy for him.
there's Just a couple things that are very odd that im starting to notice. He saw me shopping and offered me a lift home but I lied and said i had a friend picking me up because i just thought it was a bad idea to be alone with him.
I even set him up with a friend of mine but it didn't work out. Then I noticed my husband and myself keeping getting him as recommend friend on Instagram even though we have no mutual friends.
Whenever I post my husband on Facebook he won't like the post but when its just me he hearts it. Im currently pregnant and he did congratulate me on that which was nice.
The biggest thing thats freaked me out his his new girlfriend. Its not just me whose said this
I originally thought she was his big sister as she was always bossing him around and looked annoyed to be in his company.
She was very controlling of him and eventually they broke up. When they broke up he only told me and no one else at work.
We used to talk a lot as we had a lot in common at the time we were both in long term relationships and had similar interests. We always recommend each other little spots to take each other's partners and such.
He started opening up to me in ways he said hed never opened up to anyone. I get this from a lot of men but im very easy to talk to and great at giving advice.
I will amit id always had a little bit of attraction to ollie but I love my partner way to much to ever cheat, no one compares to him and cheating just ain't worth it so eventually as hard as it was me and ollie both kinds unspokenally decided to distance are self from each other. He admitted he liked me but out of respect to my relationship he was backing off.
I told him he's still young and whilst single he needs to find himself and travel. He did exactly that and moved to a new job doing what hed always loved photography now he's super successful and im really happy for him.
there's Just a couple things that are very odd that im starting to notice. He saw me shopping and offered me a lift home but I lied and said i had a friend picking me up because i just thought it was a bad idea to be alone with him.
I even set him up with a friend of mine but it didn't work out. Then I noticed my husband and myself keeping getting him as recommend friend on Instagram even though we have no mutual friends.
Whenever I post my husband on Facebook he won't like the post but when its just me he hearts it. Im currently pregnant and he did congratulate me on that which was nice.
The biggest thing thats freaked me out his his new girlfriend. Its not just me whose said this
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5 mo
She looks exactly like me and happens to be my cousins god daughter. Every girl he's dated since his ex is exactly like me. Shy, quiet, artistic girl with a baby face , blue eyes and blonde hair. Honestly you'd think hed cloned me with his new girl. Im happy for him if she makes him happy and maybe he just discovered after me he had a type but whenever I see him out he makes a big point in introducing me to his new girl friend at the time and they all say how highly ollie speaks of me
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