So I’m extremely happy because I think I’m finally over a man I never thought I would be!!!
I had been with him throughout all of my teenage and young adult life so I’ve never been over him ever if that makes sense…so this feeling is all new to me.
Him and I were on and off since we were 14 until we were 28. We ended things on good terms and we both moved away from our hometown. I got a new job and he travelled around and ended up moving away too.
We always kept in touch so I thought we would end up getting back together eventually but when he moved away he met someone else.
After that he lied to me for over a year and continued to cheat on her with me (without me knowing) and broke my heart.
He was even seeing me behind her back when they were in the middle of buying a freaking puppy and a house together and they even got engaged a month later!
I had to find out about his girlfriend by a friend of mine sending me a screenshot of his girlfriends Instagram as he never posted anything with her so I had no clue!
I asked him about it all he blocked me on everything and shattered my world.
We have lots of mutual friends and basically everyone I know was at his wedding at the weekend.
So I saw photos and I thought it would crush me but I literally didn’t even care. I never got that thumping heart feeling, didn’t even cry or anything.
If this was a year ago I would have been a slobbering mess. Does this mean I’m finally over him after 16 years? I was literally in my bed for 2 months when he ghosted me.
I had been with him throughout all of my teenage and young adult life so I’ve never been over him ever if that makes sense…so this feeling is all new to me.
Him and I were on and off since we were 14 until we were 28. We ended things on good terms and we both moved away from our hometown. I got a new job and he travelled around and ended up moving away too.
We always kept in touch so I thought we would end up getting back together eventually but when he moved away he met someone else.
After that he lied to me for over a year and continued to cheat on her with me (without me knowing) and broke my heart.
He was even seeing me behind her back when they were in the middle of buying a freaking puppy and a house together and they even got engaged a month later!
I had to find out about his girlfriend by a friend of mine sending me a screenshot of his girlfriends Instagram as he never posted anything with her so I had no clue!
I asked him about it all he blocked me on everything and shattered my world.
We have lots of mutual friends and basically everyone I know was at his wedding at the weekend.
So I saw photos and I thought it would crush me but I literally didn’t even care. I never got that thumping heart feeling, didn’t even cry or anything.
If this was a year ago I would have been a slobbering mess. Does this mean I’m finally over him after 16 years? I was literally in my bed for 2 months when he ghosted me.
