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Why some girls loved and some not?

Today I saw girl that my guy friend likes. He always described her with so highly and I started thinking she’s beautiful. But today, I saw her and it felt like she had ordinary looks. She has super narrow hips and wide shoulders, slightly dark skin and sleepy eyes form, she was same height as me. And it made me thinking, why nobody love me the same level s her? When I saw her I felt like my looks even better. I have wider hips, small waist, big boobs, cute face, light skin. Maybe I sound like a pick me, but I genuinely don’t understand why I can’t be loved on the same level as her?
He described her as very introverted that tries to escape him. Am I too open and act too available? And attraction toward you mostly about how act not how you look?
And I asked him “if she didn’t try to escape you and was open would you still love her?” And he said “yes” but when I saw her appearance I think he lied. He only likes her unavailability. That’s how you should act?
Or I’m not attractive how I think about myself? I feel like I don’t appreciate myself enough
Why some girls loved and some not?
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