Why do some girls find love so easily while others can't?

[nella965]

Why do some women have guys falling for them so easily while others have such a hard time?

[djmzes]

Simple

You can have the best car in the world, but if you do not know how to drive, it will bring you no way, while someone who can drive, can make the cheapest car bringing him to his destinations.

It is what you do that matters, not what you like or say. At the end that what will counts the most.

You may attract someone with your body, but it is your personality and manners and wisdom that make someone stay or leave.

[TommyMountainFigure]

That's just life. Everyone is different with different strengths and weaknesses.

[SamFromFL]

They look better and have more confidence

[MissGeorgia]

You don’t know what this girl looks like... she may be hotter than anyone you’ve ever seen.
Trying to make her feel worse won’t make your life any better.
Maybe she is just shy and doesn’t come across as very approachable. Usually, it’s something as simple as that.

[SamFromFL]

She isn’t asking about herself, it was a general question. If she wanted to ask about herself she would have done so. Why do you assume this is about her?

[MissGeorgia]

Because usually these kind of questions are personal.
Either way, it doesn’t mean that just because someone is single, they are less good looking than someone who isn’t

[SamFromFL]

Totally agree with you. Everyone is an individual. But in general better looking people are more attractive right?

[MissGeorgia]

Not always. There are people who perhaps not everyone would consider conventionally good looking, but have so much charisma and/or charm that they have a deeper effect on you than someone who is maybe prettier, or more handsome in the traditional, refined way.
Some people just excite you in a way you can’t really explain. Do you not find that sometimes?

[nella965]

@SamFromFL I wouldn’t say that I am the most attractive girl ever but I’ve never had a hard time getting a guy to fall for me

[nella965]

@MissGeorgia you’re very wise.

[SamFromFL]

Again I’m trying to speak generally. Yes there are many cases where people aren’t attracted by looks. Yet even the asker admits she doesn’t have a hard time having guys fall in love.

[SamFromFL]

Also see my original answer where I said confidence. You have said some people have charm; which comes from confidence

[nella965]

@SamFromFL. From my experience, If you’re a great person, you shouldn’t have a hard time finding someone to love you.

Looks can get you dates but not a husband

[SamFromFL]

Ok, seems like you both think my answer was poor? Or are you both agreeing with me? lol I’m confused

[MissGeorgia]

Obviously, we can only speak from our own experiences, but I’ve found that many shy people can be very charming. ( I’m not trying to disagree with your every point here, I promise!!)
Cockiness comes from confidence.

[SamFromFL]

Yes I’ve also found shy people endearing

[MissGeorgia]

@nella965 Thanks... I’m not sure everyone would agree!! ... but thanks :)

[Anonymous]

Maybe they look better

[nella965]

not really

[Opinion Owner]

Then they are too picky

[nella965]

Looks can get you dates but not a husband.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I saw you wrote this already somewhere else. I can’t really fully agree with your statement

[nella965]

looks can attract men. but its the person that makes them stay. Just because you attract a lot of men, it doesn't necessarily mean they want to marry you.

[Opinion Owner]

So who cares who you are if you loose them in first 15 seconds because you have nothing to attract them to make them know you better snd then stay. Also looks do matter and if you think it doesn’t you are in some form of denial, nobody wants a wife they are not at least remotely sexually attracted to (unless it’s going to be sexless marriage). Maybe you just have different criteria than men what they find as physically attractive so for you it’s like you are saying that you might not be the most attractive person looks wise but it doesn’t imply you have no looks to attract according to the guys that you date. And if you don't attract any men, it hardly means you somehow miraculously will get the husband that loves you. If you have no dates, how this is supposed to happen that there will be any romantic relationship in the first place

[nella965]

I'm not the hottest girl ever. so why do i still have so many guys falling for me?
Once you get more experienced with life, you will find that there are a ton of hot girls out there who cannot get guys to fall for them (to like them for who they are).

[nella965]

You really don't need to look like an 8 or 9 /10 in order to get men falling for you , left and right.
Trust me, I've had guys fall for me left and right. Its rare for a guy to not like me.

[Opinion Owner]

I look like 4/5 so i still dont think this is valid

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe even 3/4 instead, i think i consider myself more attractive looks wise than a guy would

[nella965]

beauty is in eye of the beholder. Some guys think I am a 5 /10 while other guys think I am an 8 /10. I am slightly overweight and yet I still have guys falling for me all over the place. Seriously girl, you do not need to look amazing to get a guy. If you're a great person, its easy to have people fall for you.

[MLGbreezy]

There looks

[nella965]

not really

[MLGbreezy]

No I'm pretty sure there looks play a big role but if you know so much why ask the question🤷🏾‍♂️

[nella965]

Looks may get you dates but not a husband

[nella965]

Looks may get someone’s attention but it won’t make them fall in love with you. that’s the Difference