Why do guys block me for no reason?

[Anonymous]

I try to hook up with them I send pics of me I share info about me then I get blocked. Especially that I’m autistic. Why does this happen? Why don’t they understand that I am able to consent to have sex and have sex like everyone else?

[Anonymous]

Many people block to avoid the uncomfortable task of explaining they aren't a match. Some individuals lack the tools to handle direct communication or the intensity of a connection, so they use the block button as a quick exit.

You are absolutely correct being autistic does not change your ability to consent to or enjoy sex.

Someone blocking you is often their way of removing themselves as a suitable partner because they cannot meet your need for clear communication.

Good luck

[David318578]

Maybe they have a type, and your not that type? Like maybe he like bigger curvy girls and your petite? Or maybe he like blonds and your a red head?

What was the last thing you sent him before you got blocked?

[VioletHaze]

Autistic people are infantilized. It is better not to disclose this information to strangers, if you are able to pass as non-autistic. Also, we are prone to overshare and some find that uncomfortable. It's not always easy to know what's appropriate to share and what's not when autistic.

There is too little information as to why exactly they block instead of saying they are not interested. Perhaps you are not their type and they lack decency to let you down gently.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true why even when I don’t tell them they could tell and block me?

[VioletHaze]

We are wired differently on a neurological level. I am very skilled at masking, but still, people notice something is 'off'.

It could be for an entirely different reason as well.

[Asker]

Like what different reason?

[VioletHaze]

I know too little to answer that

[Kabluie]

It can actually happen anytime not just the flirt stage, there are guys who will hookup with you once, leave, and then block you as well.

[Berethor]

Maybe they don't like your looks, blocking you is pretty rude, follow me if you want to chat.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

maybe you are sharing too much. people get uncomfortable when you share too many personal and unsolicited stuff with them

[Asker]

Well they ask me things and I share it with them

[Alex-Snow]

That is just mean. But maybe be more choosy on who and how often you send pictures to.

[dudeinohio]

Sorry about all that. Some people just dont understand and have enough information.

[Anonymous]

Ahh I’m sorry that’s happening to you! I’d give u hugs if I could!

[beefcakebradybatson]

Prejudice.

[Asker]

Why do they have prejudice?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Ignorance.