Do guys see emotional reserve and tomboy traits as masculine or unattractive?

[Anonymous]

So I often think about it. Do men don't like women who are a bit rigid. Rigid in a sense that they don't show their emotions or maybe not directly. Plus if I don't know wearing makeup will he think I'm less feminine. I'm a bit tom-boy I agree with that not so masculine but not so feminine either. I like sports. I like things that gives me thrill. I like thrill novels too. Sometimes a crime documentary as well. I'm a bit sarcastic (ok I'm lying I use sarcasm a lot ). I like things that are interesting just like how it is with everyone but I still feel like an odd one out.

[teamvic]

Guys dont neck only go for girls who follow the " rules of being feminine " as long as you look good thats all that matters

I could argue the personality you have would make it easier for guys to get along with you, therefore making them like you easier

Some girls its hard to connect with no matter how attractive they are

To answer your question, its not as big of a factor as you may think it is

[teamvic]

I dont know where the word neck came from to be honest

Ignore that

[Asker]

🙂 Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

[Cyfris]

Yes absolutely as a general statement. But there is a thing called personal preference and for every thing there is likely someone who likes it.

[Anonymous]

I'm definitely more emotionally reserved, so that isn't an issue for me. All of the interests you listed are normal. Thats better than something overly feminine, because we could maybe enjoy them together.

[Berethor]

Men tend to have more in common with emotionally reserved tomboys, I don't think it bad.

[nolabels]

Emotional reserve is unattractive to me.

Tomboy traits are cool.

Cheers!

[Daytoday79]

I don't think those kinds of girls are masculine... tough maybe but tough girls are attractive. Plus from all your interests you come across as smart too and that's definitely a plus in my book. I love crime docs and TV series like that

[jahaims]

Feminine guys like masculine females. So if you are into fem guys you are fine

[MidnightRivers]

Not at all, that sounds attractive

[audean57]

I like tomboys ☺️