Why don’t men approach women anymore, and what changed?

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[loveslongnails]

C'mon, this is all over social media and has been for years.

* Women only want to be approached by good looking men. That's the first requirement
* Next, you have to make a really good living
* Then, you have to have a very low body count, which differs for every woman. For some reason, women think that a low body count guarantees future fidelity. Statistics show there's only a 9% to12% difference in the occurrence of extramarital affairs if a man has had 3 partners or more than 7 to 10 partners. Anyway...

Ok,, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with those requirements because that's what you want. However, that fits about 1 or 2 men in 20, in other words 5 to 10% of all men. So 90% of ALL women are looking for 5 to 10% of ALL men.

That means the other 90-95% of men who get rejected are just not willing to keep getting rejected anymore because they don't pass the first 3 minimum requirements. Again, don't come at me thinking I'm saying "what, should we settle?" I'm just reporting the stats, and the numbers, and telling you WHY.

[MrChinaski]

This is BS. Guys have just become more risk averse; girls too.

[loveslongnails]

@MrChinaski What is BS? Everything I said is true, and the numbers back me up. If a really hot looking girl who a thinks is out of his league were to pay the proper kind of attention to him, all risk goes out the window.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

@MrChinaski Exactly why this is happening. The reward isn't worth the risk.

[Theunfadeable]

Women changed. I was turning up in the club before bottle service existed. Going out and interacting with women was completely different before all that rabid feminism and man hate took hold.! clearly men and women have always had their differences and there’s always been a little dysfunction and bad behavior on both sides, but it felt like approaching. A woman was welcomed and accepted. You’d go to the club have some drinks and we shoot our shot And people would have fun together. If the woman wasn’t interested, she’d let them know and it was no big deal. Guys would actually go up to girls on the dance floor and start dancing with them evenThe girl was interested she and she wasn’t. She waved Him off, and they would go their separate ways.

Fast forward today, where we have women who start screaming at the top of their lungs and having panic attacks Over a guy coming over say hello. Putting men on TikTok for trying to approach them Is insane. Now women are putting men on TikTok for completely minding their businesses. So you get called and creep for approach a woman and you get called a creep for not not approaching a woman. You can escape modern women’s Toxicity towards men no matter what you do😆

They say men are scared to rejection, but that’s bullshit because men are the ones who Take the risk and make everything happen. Men are sick putting up with hatred and disrespect.

[blackeagle007]

My sentiments exactly. All the feminist crap movement is causing division.

[DishLady]

• Guys detect "bitchy" or "snobby" and stay away. Makes perfect sense.
• Guys who don't have the balls to approach even a modest or shy gal are also still a major thing... "Balls" are always in a guy's court. 😂

[Friendlybro79]

This made me laugh out loud. Nice one.

[DishLady]

@Friendlybro79 ;)

[Abbycado]

They don’t? I see it all the time.

[ZameerAnsari91]

Exactly 💯

[Abbycado]

Saw it last night at an off campus party/get together. Happens all the time.

[ZameerAnsari91]

Yeah,
Guys love girls and girls love girls, its in nature of both genders

[ZameerAnsari91]

by the way, summer is coming, and I know that you love to go on beach in beautiful bikini, and you have such an amazing body for bikinis 💞💞💞

[Abbycado]

Almost that season. We are starting to see warmer days here and there.

[ZameerAnsari91]

Yeah, and they lucky people will see you,

[Abbycado]

Tbh, not many do. I spend most of my time on a boat anymore. I rarely am on the beach. It’s quieter, there’s a bathroom, refrigerators, running water, air conditioning if we want it.

[ZameerAnsari91]

wow, so only very very little number of people who can see you on beach in bikini 👙 lol

[ZameerAnsari91]

I saw your pics here, and absolutely you have an very beautiful stunning and attractive body, absolutely 🔥

[Abbycado]

Very few see me. We anchor a few hundred yards off the beach line. It’s away from the crowded beaches and much quieter.

[Abbycado]

Often lay on that front part.

[ZameerAnsari91]

wow,
when I saw the image, I thought maybe I'm going to see a most beautiful image of an beautiful and stunning girl lol, but when I opened it, I saw an boat

[ZameerAnsari91]

😭😭🤣🤣😭🤣😭🤣🤣

[Abbycado]

That’s because I took the photo. Can’t be two places at once.

[ZameerAnsari91]

hahahaha, I know, 😂😂😂

[ZameerAnsari91]

But thanks for sharing the pic and talking with me, ❤️

[Abbycado]

No prob

[ZameerAnsari91]

so how's your study goin

[ZameerAnsari91]

and how's your AA's lol?
I hope you will get what about I'm asking lol

[RCONFIGURATION1]

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[ZameerAnsari91]

@RCONFIGURATION1 hahahaha okay 👍

[Friendlybro79]

Some men don't because of social media I think. There's so many videos of women that make men out to be bad guys by default, which isn't true, and most women don't believe that, based on real interactions with women I have. These anecdotal videos, which make it seem like that's how all women think is just false. It's prob scaring off some men. Now tie that into the fact that social media is not helping people be socially present in real life. For many people, they're in their smartphones more than they are in front of people for social interactions.

Also, just so people remember, it's not easy for all men to approach women. For many, it's very nerve wracking, and it always has been for every generation. Putting yourself out there is difficult. Some are better at this than others.

That said, many men will approach women today. I just went out with a few friends yesterday and saw pretty normal interactions in real life between men and women. I find younger than me people very easy to talk to if you're not a creep. It's actually very easy to talk to people. If you run into someone that doesn't want to talk to you, then don't. I had this great conversation with a young woman about how she's about to get her PHD, and I got her number by the end of the night because we just talked and got to know each other. I didn't even go out with the intent of this happening. I just went to meet up some friends.

If you don't focus on these things too much, or care about small percentages of women, act genuine, and aren't super aggressive or creepy, I don't think women mind as much to be approached. Just basing this on my experience. Also, sometimes you can just talk without the intention of turning it into a relationship lol. It's good practice just to talk with the intent of having a nice conversation with someone.

[bolverk]

Probably because women have told Men to “Go Away” and “Leave Us Alone”, so Men have done exactly what was requested of them.

What women though was “chivalry” was nothing more than good manners, the same good manners that women ceased using alone time ago.

Men have simply run a risk/benefit analysis and have decided that relationships with today’s women are just not worth the drama they always have to bring into relationships.

Also Men have see how much healthier their bank balances are when they are not constantly paying out for everything and getting bugger all in return.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Well, thanks for reminding me what a woman looks like lol

I can't even believe in your premise, because I see men approaching women, all the time lol. So what changed is... Nothing I can observe. Maybe you observed a change but then we don't live in similar areas.

[Twalli]

Part of it is the misandrist high jacking of the #MeToo movement. Sexual assault and unwanted advances were a problem and #MeToo was good in intent. Misandrists high jacked it and made it so any woman who is approached by a man she doesn't like can claim it, while a guy she likes doing the exact same thing isn't treated the same. This view along with women thinking they're the prize makes pursuing women just not worth it. You aren't a prize; the relationship is the prize. He's just as valuable as you are.

[Master_Debator]

Is the juice worth the squeeze?

The fact that a relationship with a woman is starting to get the answer no more often than not is kind of feminism's fault.

We all want the sex yeah... it's the other stuff that used to be wanted as well, that just isn't there anymore.

That's what I think the reason is.

[Anonymous]

That's pretty straight forward. There used to be a reward for approaching woman. And no I'm not talking about sex! Most women do not want a relationship with ANY man. And if they do men know she wants it completely on her terms for undetermined amount of time that she will dictate. Well, what fool would sign on for that? But as I said most women do not want a relationship with ANY man. Most of them just want his attention and adulation. So in the past when a man was talking to her, dating her, getting to know her. He was building something. Now men know there almost no such thing. There's no such thing when Most of them are just playing him the whole time. It's sad because a man knows he can get sex so easily with most of them. Women USED to covet that. And used to make him get to know her and earn that. So there is absolutely nothing special about it anymore. Women have completely devalued that to nothing.

[nolabels]

I recently did approach a woman.

I could elaborate on that which transpired.
I won't.

Just as I'd remembered the way women behave, from before my eventual marriage, which recently ended in my widowhood, this particular woman whom I approached, like most women, not all, but most women, turned out to be batshit crazy.

It was no surprise to me.

[Anonymous]

because only Chads and Tyrones are allowed to approach women

every other man just exists as a retirement plan to be settled down for once she's done with riding the cock carousel of Chad and Tyrone

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Which is why men should refuse to sleep with anyone but virgins to avoid these women who deserve to be as lonely as us.

[OneViewpoint]

Incel alert!!!

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@OneViewpoint 59 year old beta male orbiter alert!!! (who took his turn whenever Stacey was angry with chad)

[OneViewpoint]

@Wodens_Apprentice ,

You Red Pill Incel dweebs are hilarious. You've bought into the cult hook, line, and sinker. I guess that helps you explain why no woman will go near your loser ass with a 10 foot pole and never will. Do you spend 8 hours a day in a Red Pill chat room with the other losers whining with like real "Alpha Male" studs? Yeah, you're all Alpha Males. You all chose to be outcasts. Women didn't reject you, you rejected them. Like 3rd grade all over again. For life. Whatever gets you through the day without a mass shooting Alpha Male.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@OneViewpoint You're a reject who only got pussy because you waited your turn, so shut the fuck up that makes you lower down the social ladder then me. People aren't incels just because women reject them but also because of how modern women have turned into hopeless, soulless whores whose standards & sense of entitlement have been ramped up 10× thanks to internet exposure.
Your generation is devouring all the power, properties & taxes for your indulgent, vampiric hippie lifestyle that doesn't give a shit about the future generations after it & you didn't pass on any masculine values so now western civilisation is dying because of it.

[OneViewpoint]

@Wodens_Apprentice ,

Hey incel, no one is lower on the social ladder than you pathetic whining losers. Hence why you sit alone at night in a Red Pill internet echo chamber with your fellow losers telling each other how superior you are to all the people who actually have a life. And now you're not just blaming your own failures on women, mommy and daddy are to blame as well. But none of it is ever your fault weakling, is it?

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@OneViewpoint Not true. Every single woman respects the beta male orbiter less than they do virgins who choose to hold back on most women out of judgement towards their character. Women respect men who respect themselves which simps like you have always lacked.
"Red Pill internet echo chamber with your fellow losers telling each other how superior you are to all the people who actually have a life." You're assuming I'm even friends with anyone to begin with, actually I spend most of my time having violent fantasies because the world is filled with insects like you in it.
"But none of it is ever your fault weakling, is it?" I'm 6'4'', broad & autistic. I could leave you as just a pile of blood down an alleyway.

[OneViewpoint]

@Wodens_Apprentice ,

You've already left yourself a pile of blood alone and utterly useless to anyone including yourself. You're mentally weak. Pathetically weak. Unable to cope with a world that doesn't want you in it. And you are unable to take any accountability for your own failures as a man. What a waste of a life.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@OneViewpoint Ha so now you've changed it to a mental weakness. No if anything the more suffering someone goes through, the more psychologically hardened they become & I've been through plenty. You're the type of person who perceives the rational mind as weakness though.
You say a world that doesn't want me in it. The world was just fine before you genetically inferior mutants built a civilization where the scheming, dishonest men are those who are rewarded because you were too weak to be a real man & compete with violence.
If I was raised in the Teutonic society that my ancestors had always lived in, then I would've just cut off your head RN & stolen all the women in your family. Instead you get to have your little word exchange on the internet thanks to our weak christcucked society.

[OneViewpoint]

@Wodens_Apprentice ,

No dimwit. I meant you are mentally weak from the start. You're just now catching on. I see why no one wants anything to do with you now. Some people grow through adversity. You become more mentally unstable. That's mental weakness. So is being sucked into the Red Pill cult to explain away your failures as a man. So is your inability to take even a shred of responsibility for your own social dysfunction. You really do struggle to cope with life, don't you.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@OneViewpoint Yeah now your taking as if your physical prowess doesn't matter. The typical cope of the civilised, domesticated man right there.
"You become more mentally unstable. That's mental weakness." No that's just your perception of wrong & right being Christianised & you actually listened to the liars in your life who preached morality to you. Mental stability isn't confirming to what everyone else thinks & being a normies, infact I see that as weakness & containment.
What redpill cult are you even talking about? Oh leftoids laugh at us for targeting bogeymen that aren't real groups such as antifa & BLM yet here you are doing the same presuming I'm some kinda Andrew Tate manwhore.
I've taken plenty of responsibility for my perceived failure in the past until I realised that people want you to bare that responsibility because they don't want you pointing out the truth. That society is full of pathetic, backstabbing traitors & liars & that most of humanity deserves to be forced to work on a plantation because history brem them to labour away their soul for the benefit of a few autistic people.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneViewpoint you threw hissy fits when Trump got elected, threw tantrums when people weren't acting as Trump deranged as you and yet you have the audacity to accuse others of being mentally weak lol

@wodens_apprentice OneViewpoint is just another incel in denial accusing others of being incels as part of his failed mating strategy. he's just as toxic as the "incels" he makes fun of

[OneViewpoint]

Like I said... Incel Alert. Two Red Pill outcasts from the fringe of society trying to hang onto their cult beliefs while they slip further and further into isolation in their dark web chat room and tell themselves they're "Alpha Males", not society's rejects.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneViewpoint no one here is calling anyone an alpha male except your own delusional brain

this is just you making shit up to make yourself feel better

[OneViewpoint]

So you both admit you're not Alpha Males, you're proud Beta males waiting for Chad and Tyrone's leftovers and simping for scraps of attention and praying to White Baby Jesus.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneViewpoint you're making shit up again and projecting your own fantasies onto us

no one who calls anyone "incels" for speaking the truth isn't himself trying to simp for attention

[OneViewpoint]

Look at the first two posts in this thread from you and your butt buddy Woden.

Chad and Tyrone.

Every other man are nothing but a retirement plan.

Don't sleep with anyone but virgins.

Women deserve to be as lonely as us.

It reads like the script of a Red Pill hate video. A nonstop pity party by losers who can't compete. Yeah guys, it's everyone else's fault all the time isn't it. You have zero responsibility for your own situation. The coward's way to cope.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneViewpoint there's a lot of emotional extrapolation from you but zero logic on how you came to your strawman conclusion

sorry not sorry but no man is legally or morally obligated to save a woman from her poor choices but you're more than welcome to pay full price for what Chad and Tyrone got for free

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@OneViewpoint Look at my recent posts on a little red riding hood comment to understand what an outcast is. Because you don't want a society of outcasts. You might laugh but you'll stop laughing when you're the one having all the bitches of your family stolen from you by a white version of ISIS (who themselves target incels with promises of a wife & good life which they actually provide for them).
The outcast doesn't just fade off into the abyss, he turns to others who have things he does not, especially those who laugh & he takes from them like the Vikings, Huns & Scythians did.
Also why do you hate incels so much? Did you get cucked by an incel or something? But that doesn't make sense 'cause I reckon you'd enjoy that.
Why are you accusing me of crying over Trump when I have an English PFP?
It's not my fault all you Americans are ruled over by hand rubbing Israel with their list of blackmailed democrats & republicans. The US was founded by Freemasons & doesn't embrace any ethnic group as their people (except white Christians & you even scrapped that good law).

[OneViewpoint]

@Wodens_Apprentice ,

Incels are not numerous enough to constitute a society. By definition outcasts are the rejects of society not a majority. Broken things. Anomalies. How are a minority failures going to rise up and conquer anything including their own weakness. Sounds like you have delusions of grandeur. I suppose that feels better than looking in the mirror. My bet is that no incel has ever had the ambition or the determination to win at anything. That's why they are incels who sit on the sidelines of society and whine like toddlers.

[Opinion Owner]

@Wodens_Apprentice he doesn't realize most of the world and throughout history was red-pilled

the Bible, the Torah, the Quran are all red-pilled

the greatest philosophers of all time were red-pilled e. g. Aristotle, Nietzsche, Confucius, etc.

the greatest writers of all time were red-pilled e. g. Shakespeare

mother nature in general is red-pilled especially amongst mammal species. evolutionary psychology and evolutionary biology are also red-pilled

many former feminists have become red-pilled and deconstructed their feminism having left the cult

it's only in the modern world, where simps like OneViewpoint have been watching too many rom coms and Disney fairytales that evangelize women on a pedestal

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@OneViewpoint That's not even true. An outcast isn't a minority it's somebody who has been rejected by the society they live under. Now you're just making stuff up you retard.
You're telling me to look in the mirror when you're a 59 year old man wasting the last decades of his life away projecting his own failures onto redpill types, in order to impress his wife's boyfriend (in vain of course).
Also you associate literally any right wing view or talking point with being an incel.
How about you go on back to your gay old hippie pals as they butt plug you?
I bet you'll enjoy that more then what your roastie hoe how has to offer.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneViewpoint

lmao the Middle East is full of incels which is why they migrate to western countries stupid enough to leave their borders wide open. cucks like yourself welcome them to your doorstep to fuck your women

incels have overthrown entire civilizations and nations. 20,000 Taliban men recently subjugated Afghanistan a few years ago. the young men of Nepal also recently overthrew their government. slaves throughout history who got no pussy have rebelled against their overlords to become the new authority

meanwhile you're on here constantly whining about Trump like a toddler, dreaming of revenge fantasies against MAGA instead of doing anything about it. why don't you take your own advice?

Elliot Rodger at least did something about it. even Thomas Matthew Crooks tried to kill Trump despite failing and you're here playing keyboard warrior.

[OneViewpoint]

Let me know when you Red Pill wimps take over the world or get laid, whichever comes first. I'm not gonna hold my breath while I wait. There's a reason no women want you. And there's a reason you've done nothing with your lives.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneViewpoint lmao Europe has already been overtaken by Muslims and Trump has you libtards thinking he'll recreate the Handmaid's Tale in real life

fun fact. women don't want you neither. difference is I don't care if they don't want me. you clearly do care which is why you have to play captain-save-a-hoe

and you have no choice but to play captain-save-a-hoe because you're a legit loser with nothing else to offer

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@OneViewpoint Yeah, when it happens you're gonna become one of the 6 million 😉

[AngryCarl3]

Men remember stuff. For example:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/5Fh54MVdYxQ

[Friendlybro79]

She prob dropped something and this nitwit has no idea. lol. This is not average women.

[sirderpsalot123]

Women still complain about being approached by men so I don't think that's true lol

[Anonymous]

Many modern men actually like self-confident women who like to take initiative... dominant & assertive girls are the best in my opinion.

[In_Trance]

Stop believing everything you see on the internet. Men approach women all the time

[beefcakebradybatson]

We don't want to be accused of s*xual harrassment.

[Anonymous]

MeToo statutes were a charge can see you facing execution for even talking to a woman

[valentina4eva]

men still approach all the time lol

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh they do approach!

[FunkyMonkee]

It's generally called, "the me too movement".

[blackeagle007]

Feminism. Simple answer

[queenofcardio]

They still do

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Some act really rude..

[LiamJHayden]

I still do.

[exitseven]

They call the cops.

[ZameerAnsari91]

Seriously?
Lol?