This is hilarious.
How come milk doesn't cost $0.10 any more? How come I can't fill up my car with as much gas for $20 any more? How come I now have to purchase crappy health insurance and have to pay for things like maternity care and female contraception, even though I'll never use such items, but female insureds don't have to pay for male contraception (and male contraception isn't a covered healthcare expense)?
The answer is, time have changed. We can either sit there b*tching about why times have changed, or we can cope and move on with how times have changed.
Every time a girl asks this question, I think of George Orwell's Animal Farm quote, "All animals are equal, but some are more equal than others."
Are you saying that there was a man in that picture that you were actually interested in who didn't approach you to start socially interacting with you? If so, what's sad isn't so much that he didn't approach you to socially interact with you, so much as the fact that nothing prevented you from socially interacting with him by walking over and talking to him yourself.
Are you saying that there wasn't a man in that picture that you were actually interested in, and you're complaining that you slew of attention stopped there and didn't continue into getting approached by men you had no interest in so you could publicly say "Eww, no thanks, bye loser" for all to bear witness to how awesome and amazing and wanted you are? If so, rape and sexual assault victims hate you right now.
I'm just trying to understand where this grand problem or epic suffering stems from for women. If you see a guy, and he's not walking up to you and talking to you for whatever reason, then go up and talk to him. You have no fcuking idea why he isn't talking to you! Maybe he's thinking about his bills, or what he's going to write for an application, or SOMETHING ELSE BESIDES YOU! You're really going to let that go by just because he's not thinking of you 24/7 already?
Feminism basically.
There are guys out there that lack the skills, confidence etc to approach and charm girls. They are victims of a culture which raises kids to believe that men and women are just the same, being an assertive man is objectifying to women, etc. You can't brainwash a boy throughout childhood and puberty and then expect him to do the exact opposite as an adult! (Though a few guys manage to deprogram themselves with A LOT of effort.) What is this culture responsible? Feminism.
Then there are guys out there who don't want to associate with women. What are some common complaints? There are complaints similar to the points above. Plus things like... for a man having sex is as big a risk as it would be for a woman if women weren't allowed to choose abortions. If you're accused of rape, you don't get the same high standard of due process which you get if accused of other crimes. Women have careers now but still expect men to pay for dates. Marriage brings no legal benefits for almost all husbands but huge risks for them. It's such a big list. I could go on and on. But what is this culture which has created these problems? Again feminism.
And then there are of course men who fit into both categories.
Together these men form a large section of the population. So no wonder you're noticing a lack of interest
Um, would you really want those kind of guys to approach you? I just walk away quickly in those situations.
If you're looking for someone to date/a boyfriend, meet more guys in social settings. Guaranteed you'll get asked out if you're half-way pretty, a little outgoing, and sweet. The problem is your pool of guys - it's not big enough. I wouldn't just count on strangers coming up to you. Most of the guys I've been out with were a friend of a friend, someone at a house party, in my class, a regular at work, etc. I guess if you go to bars/clubs that's another place where guys will ask you out, but be wise about that.
If you would want someone to approach you I would look them straight in the eye and give them a sincere smile and if they don't get the hint then go approach them, some guys may be shy or not get the hint
All wolf whistles and no action LOL
If a guy went through those primeval motions in my direction I wouldn't want him to approach me, sounds quite degrading?
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I wouldn't even consider dating someone who does "wolf whistles". I'd rather look for civilized people.
1. I don't want to be murdered by police officers when a woman yells "rape" without even being held for trial for just looking at them.
2. We don't feel safe knowing that a woman can pretty much get away with any crime in the justice system that favors them.
3. We don't feel safe knowing that a woman can scream and yell up and down at us without having any way to defend against it.
4. We don't like the fact that the number one attraction to a male, is our status, wealth, social being, instead of who we are.
5. Men like myself want to have a right to our child, even if they are out of wedlock.
6. We men are sick and tired of hearing that rape is the worst thing in the world, when I a male rape victim myself, know there are people far off worst than me.
7. We hate drama.
8. Were expected to do everything to please a woman, it's not a males world (Not that it ever was before), it's a woman world.
9. Because I have mother issues.
10. Because women are entitled.
11. I'm a kind hearted prick.
Basically when women are approached by guys they don't like, a lot of them don't know how to handle it and it can start with them being polite and the guy thinking she may like him, but ends up getting to a point where he makes a move and the girl gets extremely irrational. With the many bogus cases of women trying to make such trivial bullshit look like "sexual assaults" it's causing guys to grow up avoiding women like the plague.
A little boy can't even kiss a girl on the cheek without being suspended for it nowadays... yes this is happening in schools.
I don't even whistle or any of that weird shit (except for the occasional stare).
The reason I don't approach women anymore is because at my current status quo, I'm in no shape of form ready to handle a relationship. I just got out of one 6 months ago and learned some valuable lessons, and some things I need to work on. Anyways, the next relationship I'm looking for will be when I've finally got all my crap together (and not a broke college freshman) and I would like it to be a bit more permanent. So that is why (temporarily) I don't approach women anymore.
Women label men who don't approach the way they like creeps, they often shoot men they don't fancy down harshly, feminist types are obsessed with guilting men who for the most part do not rape women for the rapes that some men commit... Then complain that men don't approach them.
I think a lot of men these days are just cynical about women. Women are not quite what the used to be.
Also, society has raised an entire generation of young men who don't really know what it means to be a man. Masculinity is demonized and men are told they are all rapists and obsolete. Being a man is kinda fucked up right now.
It's because women don't do anything to suggest that they even want to be approached. So why would I go up to a woman and force something upon her that she doesn't want? I believe that's called harassment and is punishable under law.
Whenever I see a hot chick, I tap DAT assssss so I dont see how noone approach you if you are hot or maybe they are wolf whistling on your friend or maybe
You live in Alaska? Because people live far from each other there so approaching goes out of window
I'm pretty sure I've answered this a bunch of times. Yadayada potential feminism yadayada CIS privilege yadayada you could be accused of being a rapist for breathing on someone :l
If they don't get some sign of interest from you, they probably won't approach.
I'd be having a good look at your body language and eye contact. If you look closed off, you don't want to be approached or you're not very good at showing it.
Because feminism emasculated men.
Yes, we do check out the ladies everywhere we go, but the whistling annoys the shit outta me. I have a friend who does it.
Lol redpillers on here crying about women. The male equality to feminism.
You guys don't get respect from women because your pussies That whine and bitch like fat feminist bitches instead of being men.
Don't know... I still love the hunt you know, but I'm married so can't exercise it anymore :P. Are these men youn, old, from a certain culture, or just regular guys? times change, people change I guess...
because radical feminism makes out stuff like this to be on the same bandwagon as rape and assault. No man wants to be on labelled a part of this bandwagon
I stopped approaching girls in college cause in college women come to you and its easy. Plus when I approached girls they scoffed at me so I like college. Plus I'm 20 years old I'm not old enough to be in a relationship yet.
Men started to take the 'no more gender roles' concept to heart.
American women have largely become entitled unpleasant boring people.
MHO: Feminism caused men to start wolf whistling? yeah right, miss fake account.
Sorry to tell you but it is 2014. Things have changed :P
women can be scary XD
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