Does this boy like me or am I delulu?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I need your HONEST opinion on something 😭

There’s this guy in my coaching. He’s very quiet, like extremely reserved, barely talks to anyone, usually sits alone (either first bench corner or last bench corner), and doesn’t really look around much. He's so fine tho istg.

I’m also not very extroverted, but I do talk to my friends (mostly girls), and I don’t really talk to boys at all.

Now the thing is—we’ve had multiple eye contacts over the past few days. Like at least 7–8 times total. A couple of times I caught him already looking at me, and once I could literally feel him looking before I even looked up.

One time when he was entering class, he looked directly at me. Another time when we were leaving, we had eye contact again. So it’s not just random once or twice.

Also, there was this one small interaction: during dispersal, he was in the wrong line and I told him to come in front of me. He didn’t say anything, just came forward and left quickly (he’s that kind of quiet person).

He also doesn’t really look at others much and he doesn't have any friends, which is why it feels a bit noticeable to me.

So yeah… be honest—do you think he might be even a little interested, or am I just overthinking eye contact?

[Screenwriter]

Someone has to make the first move. Eye contact isn't going to get either you any further. Ask him something about the coaching class. Why's he taking it? Tell him why you're in the class. See where that goes. Break that ice. Good luck.

[Sunshinelips]

I think he’s just curious about you. Shy guys are so hard to decipher!

[In_Trance]

So you're extroverted...
But you only talk to your friends...
And you don't talk to boys...


So... you're introverted

[spartan55]

Don't conflate interest and attraction.