Does this boy like me or is he just nice?

[BrylaQ98]

I think this guy at my church likes me ( im 15 he's 18) i've known him for few years but recently we became "friends" through our church youth group. He always seems to care, like when i text him he always first asks "how are you?". Or when I'm sick he will check up on me like "how are you feeling". He always asks for my help and opinion with things, Compliments me, and when i say something and kinda ignored or not heard (when other people are around), he will ask me to repeat what i said. And ALWAYS comes to my defence. I don't know if i like him back in a crush way i guess i don't know how to feel since he already said he didn't like me to my friend... Did he say the truth? (keep in mind he was asked this about a year ago) Haha, sorry this is so long... I'm just very confused :(

[Guy13]

He might like you and you might like him, however, you are under wage is called “legal age”. If he has intimidate contact with you then he could get in deep trouble including possibility of imprisonment.
Stay away from him until you are year or more older.

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes. Nothing good can come from this.

[BrylaQ98]

Ok thank you so much for your answer. :) Other people didn't answer me very appropriately. Its been like this for years though,. since he was 14 and i was at the time 12 (bc of our birthdays) i don't think he is being weird or something. But i will try to stay away from him.

[Guy13]

You are welcomed.

[TheVigilantFox]

He sounds like a nonce to me, why is an 18 year old fussing over a child?


I would stop talking to him as he’s most likely grooming you.


It’s also weird.

[KrakenAttackin]

If you have sex with him he will end up going to jail.

[BrylaQ98]

Why are people taking my question inappropriately? Yes im still basically a kid. I just want to know if he has a crush on me. Simple as that nothing more. Didn't you have a crush when you were a teen? Gosh.

[KrakenAttackin]

I am simply saying do NOT create a shit storm for him. The consequences are too high and will DESTROY his life.

[BrylaQ98]

... ok. but bruh this is at church, not at school or something. chill.

[Danael31]

I guess he is. But as people have mentioned before : the age is important. You will have to wait a few years before being able to legally date him

[Iron_Man]

To young to date

[BrylaQ98]

Not to date him, im just wondering if he has a crush on me. thats all definitely nothing more

[Iron_Man]

Hard to tell exactly

[KrakenAttackin]

He might, but do both of you a favor and steer clear of him, if you care about him at all.

[BrylaQ98]

@KrakenAttackin He is a very sweet person and i like him for that and that only.

[Iron_Man]

She will have to wait three years

[KrakenAttackin]

He is 18 and likely horny AF, just do him a huge favor and steer clear.

[LemiaOfThunder]

Ask. him. we dont know.

[In_Trance]

Wants to smash

[BrylaQ98]

what?