Guys - The "Nice Girl"

[Anonymous]

So I'm kind of "the nice girl" - I treat others nice, I'm sweet, I don't dress provacative or swear or drink or do drugs. I'm smart, innocent, Haven't had sex, etc.

whats weird to me is, a lot of the "bad boys" like me. the bad boys can be with me other guys and "bad girls" but they FLOCK to me! flag me down to sit with them etc. its crazy.

the nice boys seem to like me as a friend and are very nice to me but don't flock to me or ask me out as crazily. what is up with this? do I attract only rowdy boys being nice? because I want a nice boy. how do I get a nice boy? would a nice boy like a nice girl?

and by nice I mean doesn't drink/smoke everyday and does not get in fights a lot and cares about school and is kind to people. pretty simple =)

Bad boys are the only type who like "nice girls"

Nice boys are just shy to ask you out, but like you too.

If you're nice, you're just going to be in the friend zone.

[themaverick]

Well the bad boys are often looking for a girl that they can control and will love them regardless which is more than often the nice girls. This is more than likely the cause and nothing you can do to really stop it.

Now to attractive the nice guys you can either be cute and shy and try and win them over like that slowly or you can find one that interest you and show him you do have another sexy and "bad girl" side which will instantly make you a keeper in his eyes due to not only you being cute and lovable but your sexiness behind the door.

[kheserthorpe]

I'd guess 'B', but I think part of the issue is that 'bad boys' are more confident in their sexuality - they are confident that you'd want them, and that things would work out well sexually ... and if not they'd dump you and move on.

Nice guys may be treating you like you're asexual, or feel like they'd never get anywhere, they 'respect you too much' to try anything.

[spaz777]

it's probably because the nice guys like you but have enough tact to wait a while and all the bag boys probably want is a hookup so they rush in. You'll find the right guy soon, I promise.

[Brooke03]

That's the same as me! Sometimes I think it boosts their ego by talking to a "nice girl".

[hayfa]

how does it boost their ego to talk to a nice girl?

[Anonymous]

Bad boys usually like pretty girls, If she nice that's a plus, but usually it's about the looks. Bad boys usually want to get you in bed, if you are pretty and have a reputation for being nice and dressing conservative then it makes them want you that much more. Nice guys can be shy, take the initiative by flirting with them, touch his arm or hands, or compliment his shirt/style etc. If flirting doesn't work you might just have to ask the nice guy out.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

The nice boys probably are interested but shy. Ask them out if you're interested.

[Ezmotts]

It's probably because the bad guys are the only ones with the balls to even approach you.

[Anonymous]

My dream is to find a nice girl and make her babies.