What subtle non-physical traits make a guy instantly more attractive?

[BDRick]

I'm not sure if this is just me, but I've seen a change in how men are seen as attractive in the eyes of women. I'm wondering if a man need be nicer toward all others, just those who are nice toward (him), women in general, specific women, or if being kind even matters much at all anymore? Must he have money? What I mean is not rich monetarily, but enough to get by and have a little to live comfortably? I'm just trying to adapt myself and get a better understanding of the new social structure?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

The problem with this is women are not a monolith and share the same likes. What works for one doesn't work for others.

For example, humor is a big one for me. Im a sucker for bad puns and dad jokes. Hit me with a few of those on a first date and I'm like putty (assuming I haven't heard them before lol). For others, that's not their style. Some will be attracted to wealth. Some (including myself) look for kindness and thoughtfulness.

The main key is to try and pay attention to a woman during your conversations to see what her likes are.

The best advice I can give though is being genuine. Sure it won't attract all women, but at least you won't revert back from something you aren't once you get comfortable with her and let's her see a side of you she may not like. Being genuine from the start lets us know who you really are from the beginning and give us a real chance to decide if that's what we want in a guy.

[thegreenyogi]

Natural Charm means a lot of things. Some men just have that glee in their eyes that makes them more attractive. It's not something that can be faked.

[NicholasofAustralia]

Like a good swagger 😎🆒

[Nikki1989]

Having a strong personality, charisma, and a good sense of humour can significantly enhance your chances of success.

[bobalife]

Each their other but, respectful, genuine, & gentleman are big to me.


Don’t come off too strong lol.

[bobalife]

Each has their own * autocorrect af lol

[NathanDavis]

be genuine

that's all