A girl came to your house, bring a gift, stayed for 8h, but didn't stay the night (she had said before that she won't stay) why you would go silent?

[Anonymous]

You liked her, and it was a 4th date. I dont know what i did wrong, or he wants me to feel this way? Should i text him?

[Lesbologist]

I'm going to guess expectations were not met or may have even been unpleasant for him.

I'm trying to look at this from a perspective of why I would spend that much time with a girl and then want nothing to do with them. It even resembles a few events that's happened in my own past and I have to be honest; there has been times where sex was achieved and everything... but the process of getting there made me realize the juice isn't really worth the squeeze. Thus, the effort I put in before was withdrawn.

I'm not sure about your situation but it could be a number of factors... that made the "prize" (the juice), not worth the "effort" (the squeeze) anymore. Were you challenging? Did you demand too much time and attention out of him? Did you hit him with information he was not aware of before? Did you turn the time he spent with you into a trial and tribulation for him instead of something more pleasant than if had not had you over at all? Were further demands and/or obligations being requested out of him that don't really do anything for him? I'm sure if you ask yourself these types of questions, the answer you're seeking would become obvious.

[Asker]

Did you demand too much time and attention out of him? no. Did you hit him with information he was not aware of before? no Did you turn the time he spent with you into a trial and tribulation for him instead of something more pleasant than if had not had you over at all? no. Were further demands and/or obligations being requested out of him that don't really do anything for him? no. I was just there enjoyed the company and so on.

[Lesbologist]

Hmmm... I mean it might be worth considering he was in it for one thing, and either got it or didn't and the quest is over for him. Or he might be one of those guys that's overly concerned about not looking like he's one of those guys or to not appear needy. It's hard for me to say... I've seen guys act all sorts of ways with women.

[Asker]

i think that ge wanted one thing, but then why so much effort

[Lesbologist]

lolz, I mean that one thing is what it's all about for some guys... they'll put in that much effort just for that and then ghost.

[Mark_Est]

If you aren't a virgin then you are just using him and dont even like him. Looks like he figured it out. He has to wait while some others in the past just f'd you on the first date.

That is even a bad deal for most cucks. If the woman is a virgin then that is different. And men respect that, traditional men, and will marry her before expect her to sleep with them. Men dont even date a nonvirgin.

Modern dudes, cucks, operate on modern standards. And expect to "pay" as much or less as the one who got it the "cheapest".

Mark got in on the 2nd date, now Phil wants to get it on the 2nd too, or he feels like a chump and used.

Modern women problems.

[NathanDavis]

"go silent" as in... how exactly?

are you talking about "texting"? and if yes? for how long?

an hour, a day, a week, a month?

[Asker]

over a month

[Asker]

yes, i was waiting for his text

[NathanDavis]

well... maybe, just maybe... they were looking for something sexual, so they did move on to something or someone where "sex won't take so long" for them?

[Asker]

so it means he wanted something casual?

[NathanDavis]

probably so, yes

[Asker]

but it seemed that we had a strong emotional connection. but probably if he did. he wouldve texted me right after

[NathanDavis]

they just wanted the sex... nothing else

[AngryCarl3]

I don't know much about relationships but maybe the only gift he wanted from you was to get into your pants.

[Asker]

i think so too

[In_Trance]

Why wouldn't you stay

[Asker]

cause i had to pick up my mate from the airport