Do conventionally attractive men like bigger/plus-size women?

[aribaby]

So I posted a question last night asking if the cashier at my local store liked me, and a lot of you responded positively (thank you to everyone who answered that question and this one!).

Now, my insecurity is creeping in. The guy at the store is conventionally very attractive, and my brain keeps telling me that guys like him don't like bigger women. I'm genuinely curious: do attractive men actually have a preference for plus-size/curvy women in the real world, or am I just setting myself up for rejection?

I don't mean to imply that curvy women aren't beautiful—I'm just trying to work through my own self-doubt. I'm genuinely curious to hear from guys: is body type variety a genuine preference for attractive men in the real world, or is my anxiety right to be cautious?

[bowenw]

Some people have preset requirements of what they want physically in a partner and won't look at anyone else. Those people don't usually change and from my observations have trouble finding a match, or if they do they can end up unhappy because they are not compatible in more important ways.

I have known men that have a preference for larger women and many that are more interested in finding a woman with a compatible personality and values than anything physical. To answer your question, I think you will find there are no rules. You will find attractive guys that are attracted to you.

[Spencer10]

Well I like to think I am attractive... I find women of ll shapes and sizes can be attractive. Especially if they are confident. Confident women are always hot in my opinion.

[aribaby]

Thank you for saying that. I think this is the kindest response I got to this question.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, obviously. There is a reason why BBW are so popular. The problem is many men are too weak to admit to it.

[bear34]

I'll be very frank with you. Being overweight is different from being curvy. No man likes an overweight woman unless he has a fetish for overweight women. Girls who are not overweight and have curves are preferred.

[Anonymous]

Ok please give up a name of a celebrity of what your definition of curvy is? A lot of women will say they’re curvy w a nice ass, big tits but then she’s got a big gut as well. I used to like Ashley Graham. I’d say she’s plus size w curves.

[Nahid1707]

i am certain you are cute.😊

[aribaby]

awww thats so sweet of you! made me smile!

[Nahid1707]

Yea, i was being adorable and giving you supportive energy vibe.😅

[aribaby]

mission accomplished!

[Nahid1707]

Appreciate you, beautiful.

[_Jenny_]

@aribaby Every man has their own taste

[jamesgoldman]

Look at Pierce brosnan and his wife

[slatyb]

Mostly they don't.

[dudeinohio]

Yes. It can happen.