What is better for a guy to be?

[Anonymous]

You gotta have both but in particular which one is more valuable for a guy to be

Very good looking

Very rich/successful

[SueShe]

None actually. You guys always place so much importance and emphasis on looks and money. What about the character, personality and intellect? Is that dismissed in favor of 2 trivial things?

Looks fade with time and someone that may have looked good when he/she was 18 certainly will no longer look good at age 60+.

If I had the choice I would take a short and chubby guy but that has exactly those 3 most important assets and certainly not someone that is apparently good looking. First, you need to definte what is good looking.

The money can be lost anytime while a great character stays a lifelong.

[4ngelic]

It depends if it's sex, casual dating or serious dating you're after. If it's sex or casual dating, it's looks 100%. If it's dating, it depends on the individual women, but you'll have a portion who will care more about money/status, and others who will still prefer looks.

(you don't need both or any of those two things by the way to get a woman)

[EmmaMary]

Neither... First and foremost Personality.

[Anonymous]

This is obviously a leading question designed to make women look superficial or like golddiggers. It is usually done by single people who want to offer only explanations that absolve them of any responsibility for being single.

[canamlusciouslad73]

I'm a HOBC ("Heartthrobby Older Black Cowboy"), but I'm far from rich.

[Anonymous]

Good looking

[Opinion Owner]

But dont make too much of either and act like personality doesn't matter more than both

[Asker]

Really it’s just about looks but girls pretend it’s personality?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I literally just said personality is most important