Do you ever question your standards?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I'm getting to a point where I think I'm just gonna be one of those guys who has kids all over the world and visits them as I travel.

If chicks don't want to build anything anymore I kinda get it but this mentality where they if they can't whatever they want and the guy isn't reacting exactly how they want every time then it's an example of a man being careless with a woman's pride...

I'm thinking you're essentially a baby factory at that point. How do you expect anyone to respect you?

For the ladies, do you have a similar perspective aimed at men?

[SueShe]

No, I never questioned my standards since I am the one that set them in the first place. It is your prerogative to think the way you do about men and women but I do think totally differently.

I have set my standards so high because I am aiming at achieving something, otherwise I would not have chose the field I am studying, which has a large percentage of dropouts.

Since I don't plan to be in a relationship or to fornicate, I can afford to have such high standards because I am aware that by concentrating on them, I do not neglect another person by prioritizing my goals and standards.

I do not have perspectives aimed at men because I don't interact with them other than on a professional basis.

[Anonymous]

Did your father perhaps behave this way? Maybe he was in the army? Raped woman? Another reason I don’t respect the army

[Telekinetic-Potato]

This is a weird response

[Opinion Owner]

Do you belong to a healthy family?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Not really. But my dad is rather gentlemanly with woman and has a great relationship with his mother. Who by the way, my grandma is one of the greatest women who ever lived if you ask me.

My mother is not a mentally very healthy person. She suffers from bipolar disorder amung other things.

To be fair, we're all totally nuts, argue a lot and barely see eye to eye on most things but we all have love and respect for eachother in our own ways.

I dunno if I'd call us healthy, but I wouldn't say we're unhealthy to the point where right and wrong or healthy connections with people are unfamiliar to me.

I just learned that people have perspectives on life based on how they responded to experiences and the outcomes that followed after. That a person's emotional intelligence largely dictates the quality of how those outcomes are interpreted into their worldview

[Opinion Owner]

See. You don’t deserve love. I bet he was in the military , a bunch of uneducated savages who rape

[Telekinetic-Potato]

He dropped out of college, became a programmer and when I was born, he sold his Sportscar and got a minivan, stopped partying, quit gambling, got an apartment with my mother in a Russian drunkards attic. They were in their mid 20s and worked their way up the career ladder where before either of them were 30, bought a house. My mother got a pristigous job at the new york times and my father is an executive at a multimillion dollar company making nearly a quarter of a million dollars a year.

He takes care of his mother constantly.

I don't believe anyone deserves anything and maybe that's why I have a hard time relating to the way most people seem to be.

They taught me to focus on building a future for myself with my own hands. And to see people a little deeper than whatever my knee-jerk reaction to them is. I don't immediately assume everyone who says something that makes me self reflect is a rapist or evil or terrible.

Sorry about that I guess

[Opinion Owner]

Damn you are messes up.

[NathanDavis]

the standards I'll question will be my own... as these are the ones that pertain to me, lol

[canamlusciouslad73]

I'm 73. Why would I want even one brat?

[LazerBean]

No I have not.