Are your standards too high?

Question

It's something that people talk about as a topic but most people won't admit it about themselves or maybe don't realise it.

This song is about girls whos' standards are too high. It fits with the question well :P

Jackieboi · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. My standards for messing around with someone are pretty low. For a girlfriend it can be very different dependig abit on the realationship. But for a partner they are way to high. I was lucky enough to once have a potential partner without even realizing it, just wasn't nowhere near mature enough to realize what we had. So after that the standard is ridiculously high and i often find myself thinking ill probably go through life without an actual real partner because i rather do that then open up to someone who just doesn't cut it.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Probably but it's much better then them being too low!

Belliebella · Accepted Answer

I dont think I have high standars. I want someone who is: patient, nice, loving, funny, is highly educated (minimum a bachelorsdegree), if they aren't currently studying I expect to have a job, be health concious (work out regulary and care what they put in their body). The dream guy would also be tall and have a beard, but its not a dealbreaker if they aren't tall (no shorter than 5 feet 9 inches though) nor dont have a beard

SincerelyAnon · Accepted Answer

In 2019 most people are into accept anything from anyone.
Or if someone isn't into fling culture would considered having too high of standards.
But I expect people who don't challenge themselves to have much standard for themselves to think any and everything to be considered unreasonable. There are people on their level they should go for.

I do have high standards & I think everyone should.

sejla · Answer

Aww another disbanded kpop group who probably worked really hard. My standards tend to be too low.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

Most people's standards are too high because they have an inflated opinion of themselves. They are unable to accurately gauge their own worth. The most common phrase I hear out of people with inflated standards is, "I deserve..." A total fallacy. There is no deserving in this world. You get what you earn and take. If you have not earned a partner with the standards you set forth, or if you do get them but are unable to keep them around, then clearly you never deserved them. You did not have the stamina required to make that relationship happen. Time for self reflection.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

Everyone needs and deserves to set high standards in who they will and will not date ! for if you do not then you can date and marry someone who will not work , is lazy , mean , ignorant , lies , steals from you , is a criminal , gambles or goes around fathering and mothering other peoples children and then will not pay child support and ends up being a dead beat parent

lumos · Answer

No, I think my standards are very reasonable. I'm looking for a guy to have a healthy relationship with. Someone who's on the same wavelength, have roughly the same interests, is down to earth, kind, empathetic, funny, clever and charming. As for looks, I don't have a set type (all the guys I've been into so far have looked vastly different), but obviously I need to be attracted to the way he looks as well. That's about it. So far I haven't had any trouble finding guys who are like that.

Anonymous · Answer

Men be like: I want her slim with a toned body, but with thick curves, not too short, not too tall, long legs, shiny hair, symmetrical face, and not older than 30.

Women: I don’t want a jobless broke guy

Men: wah wah 😢 gold digger!!!

Inneedofusername · Answer

I have high standards regarding looks. I can's stand blond hair and short hair.
I like guys who are pale with black hair, black beard, black eyes. Unfortunately in my country there are almost no guys looking this way.

sean1234 · Answer

My standards aren't to high, all I want is to date, marry and have kids with a beautiful Christian woman who celebrates a Saturday Sabbath. That's all.

Melshmallow046 · Answer

I have high standards, but they are also reasonable, and I wouldn't change a thing because it saved me going through a lot of relationships that would have failed. I've met people with really unreasonable standards before.

AynonOMouse · Answer

I don't know, you be the judge if they are too high or reasonable.

Darkistoolight__ · Answer

I think everyone should have standards. If you don’t you accept anything in your life, good or bad. But no, I don’t think my standards are too high.

SueAnon84 · Answer

No... I think when I was younger I had some self esteem issues so they were a bit low but now... I don't know!

MzAsh · Answer

Most girls standards are way too low.  I think are just high enough.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Yeah i guess it is but when i settled for just anyone she cheated on me and went to india to have another man's baby. So that's why i won't settle with just anyone anymore. I have more respect for myself.

roflgun · Answer

My standards match me. I won’t stoop down to anyone’s level, you’d better fucking rise up to mine.

Naxwi · Answer

My standards are pretty high, but also pretty fair. It's just definitely not gonna include every girl.

blutwolfe · Answer

Nah I actually feel like my standards are kinda low, I'm willing to pretty much give anyone a chance, life is too short to be that picky

ImSparkly · Answer

They have gotten higher of late as I start respecting myself more. Not that I didn't respect myself in the past, just more mature now and know more of what I want, need, and can't stand.

NerdInDenial · Answer

It probably is but I'm willing to suffer the consequences of having high standards.

SOARER_ · Answer

My standards
By a decent person
Believe in God.
Have some redeeming physical qualities.
Have good hygiene

I dont find them high at all

*Those women are very cute. I definitely wouldn't meet their standards haha.

Nobody-gives-a-finch · Answer

Definitely. That doesn't mean that I'll give them up or lower them, however. I intend to become worthy of the woman that meets such high criteria, however unlikely.

Anonymous · Answer

All I want is a big titty both who eats ass! Is that to much to ask for?

winterfox10 · Answer

I haven't had any issues present themselves, so I don't think so.

brightphase · Answer

Nope, i am simple and down to earth. I have high thinking.  I dont want any obstacle between me and people by setting any high standards. People may should not refrain from reaching out to you.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I expect her to be faithful. Apparently that is absurdly high by modern standards.

DWornock · Answer

I knew right off, that was Kpop. American song are not that good.

grega239 · Answer

Would like to meet a woman who has never cheated... so I guess my standards are high

OddBeMe · Answer

No, because lowering them would piss me off too much.

saeyamazaki · Answer

Mine are pretty high. not even going to lie.

Anonymous · Answer

No. But by my age most women worth having are already married or in relationships.  At this point it's like trying to find the least dirtiest, least warn out thing at a garage sale.

BrotherFrost · Answer

Absolutely. It came to a point where i have now rejected more girls than i have dated.

korey182 · Answer

you know that's possible lol I don't think it's standards but just my tastes, i always fall for the best and most special girls : ) unfortunately for me

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, maybe?
I guess my standards are not quite what society would consider to be in some sort of "high league" but I must say the amount of girls I was really interested until now is very low.

Lman3000 · Answer

Uhh I don't standards, I don't know why, maybe I cause stopped giving a shit about looks

little_bird1 · Answer

Yes, for personality.

curiousvirgin55 · Answer

They are really low, because of what politics have done to dating nowadays

Anonymous · Answer

I think many of the responses from females here clearly demonstrate why so many girls are single and bitter.

AuroraRoseat · Answer

Nope. I think they’re reasonable.

berserk945 · Answer

When I was in high school, yes way to high. I kick myself now because those girls I looked over are now gorgeous and wonderful women!

Cybernizer · Answer

Mine are reasonable, somewhere in the middle.

LeeKenz · Answer

No... I still have standard but they're not high

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

I don’t think so, but hey who knows.

MarkellaScorpio01 · Answer

No everyone else has low standards.

flowers70 · Answer

No , all I want is a rich man 😂😂😂😂

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

No. My standards are reasonable.

ivysandy · Answer

I have standards but they are not high

Mrblooo · Answer

I think mine are to low😁😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jltakk · Answer

Most might say they're too low

AshleyMadison00 · Answer

Maybe but I will not settle

mermaidia_lol · Answer

Maybe they're high to some.

JadeOFluorite99 · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

Only le best for the princess, sweetheart.

themomo84 · Answer

Standards for?

Anonymous · Answer

nah, too low

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