Are my standards too high?

[Anonymous]

I like pretty girls. That are virgins, don’t go partying and haven’t messed around.

I like caring and homily girls. I can’t accept anything less really. Good girls

You can find this

You can’t find this

[Oliverlogan263]

It's okay to have preferences for sure, but it's good to be open-minded too man. Saying you can "only accept" a certain type of girl is kinda limiting yourself I think. Here's some things to consider:

- Most girls your age aren't gonna be virgins anymore unless they're super religious or something. That's just how it is these days. As long as she treats you right, who cares about her past?

- Not all "good girls" are homebodies who never party. Maybe she likes to have fun sometimes but is still loyal to her guy.

- People can change and grow. A girl who partied in the past could totally settle down now if she meets the right guy.

- You never know how a girl will turn out just by looks. Some "pretty girls" are actually really caring and sweet on the inside too.

- Having TOO many rules will make it harder to connect with someone organic. Let things develop naturally.

I'd say keep your eyes open and don't judge too fast. Give a girl a chance to show you her heart before writing her off for small stuff. As long as she makes you happy and you make each other better people, that's what matters most right? Keep an open mind - you might surprise yourself!

[CozyCoffin]

Preferences are fine, but plenty of people end up with someone who doesn't check all marks. Be open to a homely girl that fits the other descriptions or a pretty lady that had sex in a relationship that lasted for several years. You're really limiting yourself. Everyone has a past.

[LazerBean]

If you meet those standards as well, then no. And even if you don't meet those standards, you still have to right to have wishful thinking.

[EmmaMary]

Wishing you good luck in your endeavours in finding your dream woman.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with having those standards dude. And at your age finding a virgin is still a possibility. But I'd advise against throwing a woman out just because she's foolishly f***ed the wrong guy. Even good women make mistakes. But there's a difference between a girl who's made a mistake and dating a clown car. Know the difference!

[Nikki1989]

No, just really boring. Good luck finding anyone with that attitude.

[Asker]

I think you’re the one coming with attitude. What’s your problem

[The_Sexpert]

Everyone has their own standards and preferences, don't let anyone bash you for having one on your own
Good luck

[Anonymous]

Yeah. Good luck finding a girl who had no life before meeting you. Not shaming your preferences, but they do make your dating pool very small.

[Anonymous]

Virgins are always best... and don't let anyone tell you different..

[slatyb]

Are you also a virgin? Why so judge-y?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If you match what you demand then no.