Are my standards too high should I lower them?

[Anonymous]

When it comes to relationships I feel like I won't find the one, this make me feel like my standards are too high and I'm picky but I don't know. I just want a healthy relationship (not now by the way still early) with a CLEAN guy (yes i really pay attention to hygiene), good looking, handsome, take care of his hair and skin, workout, eat healthy, has a nice smile and eyes, romantic, emotional, confident, smart.. is this too much to ask for today or I have to accept the fact that I will stay single for life

[BarryLiverstone]

Too high. Because this is a dream and not your reality in the short term

[Asker]

How?

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you said it’s too early. Therefore it’s a dream and not tangible

[BarryLiverstone]

Was that what you wanted to know?

[Asker]

Its too early cause im not ready for a real relationship right now

[BarryLiverstone]

So if that’s the case, why worry about any standards?

[laly520]

yes its too much to ask for today

lower em a bit maybe

[Asker]

How for example?

[laly520]

for example the romantic, emotional part
many guys nowadays got 0 connection with romance n as for emotional lot tend to hide their emotions or clueless about expressing em due to many reasons
maybe u could lower these two a bit

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the eternal question of "Are my standards too high?" It sounds like you're on a quest for Mr. Perfect, but let's not forget that perfection is a myth, my friend. What you've described is a dreamy list, full of admirable traits, but remember, we're all human! Focusing on hygiene and self-care? Absolutely, no compromise needed there. But when we venture into the realm of wanting everything from good looks to gourmet salads, we might be missing out on some truly amazing connections.

Falling in love isn't about ticking off a checklist; it's about finding someone who complements you, challenges you, and makes you laugh so hard your belly hurts. 😂 So, maybe take a step back and think about what's truly important to you. It's not about lowering standards but about prioritizing the qualities that will nourish your soul. Keep your heart open, and who knows? Your perfect imperfect match might just be around the corner, tripping over a gym bag, but with the most contagious smile you've ever seen. 💘

[war_daddy]

it's ok as long as you are just as good or better

[Asker]

Yess of course i won't ask for things i dont have myself

[war_daddy]

you can probably meet guys like that at the gym