Are my standards too high?

[Anonymous]

So one of my coworkers think that I have high standards and bougie because of certain stuff I won't do. I told him I won't ever date a man with kids, I only date men who have high paying jobs and he thinks I shouldn't be like that because all men aren't perfect.

[Rei13]

I don’t think your standards are wrong but if it’s not working for you you’re going to have adjust some of them.

[Avicenna]

Not wanting to date a guy with kids is understandable, but only high earners? Yeah, that is too high of a standard.

[Anonymous]

lol this explains why you’re almost 30 still single.

[CrabCakes11]

I understand not wanting to date a man with kids, but only dating rich? That’s materialistic and strange

[jahaims]

Having standards and preferences are fine. You have to be worth it to a guy in the first place though. You don't pick your own value.

[Noodle_fan]

It is fine to have high standard as long as you are also high quality person too , so it will be realistic.

[Luckycharms12]

So your after money basically ya best of luck with that dream

[Anonymous]

Not dating a man with kids is fine, but the high paying job is debatable.

[Booklover_90]

Why? So you can be a housewife?

[In_Trance]

Are you currently single?

[Anonymous]

They are and it’s mean

[Unit1]

yes.