What makes a man a ‘loser’ in women’s eyes when it comes to dating?

[KindaCowardly]

[HollyK21]

I’d say things like living at home without a job, or being out of a job for excess lengths of time without even seemingly looking for a new one. I’d also say making the woman pay for everything (I believe in 50/50), and/or having nothing to contribute to the relationship, such as no car so she always drives, along with no life goals.

[KindaCowardly]

Very good answer holly thank you!

[Nikki1989]

Baseline competence, lack of confidence, poor communication skills.

[KindaCowardly]

I would have to agree

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

For me it's someone who is closed minded and stuck in their ways forcing everyone to their point of view. I can work with someone who is willing to meet me half way on topics. Anyone who forces me to be something I am not is not for me and a real loser in my eyes.

[KindaCowardly]

Haven’t ever thought of it in that way, thank you!

[Tamera952]

Voting for trump more than once. Not saying please or thank you. Disparaging others, or punching downward. Not being kind to animals. Bragging about inanimate or material stuff. Insecurities about past partners. Bad hygiene.

[KindaCowardly]

So, in a more basic sense, just staying humble and being a good person? (With a little therapy thrown in there for any mental stuff too of course lol)

[Anonymous]

No ambition for anything. I don't care if your ambition is to be the greatest wine collector or art critic or graffiti artist, as long as it's a purpose toward something meaningful.

[KindaCowardly]

Makes sense to me lol thank you!

[Anonymous]

Not caring about the emotional and physical well being of their partner

[KindaCowardly]

thats a loser in my opinion as well. thanks for responding!

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome

[scott04sa22]

No car

[KindaCowardly]

very much agree!