What are the signs he truly loves you, not just filling his loneliness?

[Anonymous]

[lightbulb27]

he prioritizes your feelings. I thought that's why girls "test" guys?

[Asker]

Test?

[lightbulb27]

yes women test guys... to see if they are strong enough, they lie to them or challenge them to see what they say. they lob indirect questions.

[Anonymous]

Are you the only women he could get? Maybe his desire for you shifted his focus away from others.

[Asker]

I mean I know he tried dating but usually broke up within a week. He's been dating me about a year

[Opinion Owner]

He puts more effort into you.

[Asker]

I mean he drives 7 hours to see me he makes sure I'm okay with what's happening and wants me to feel safe. He wants to snuggle constantly whenever I come to visit him he's waiting outside running to my car door asking if I need help taking anything inside.

[Opinion Owner]

You certainly seem like a priority to him. He didn't care about all those other girls, but it seems like he views you completely differently.

[NathanDavis]

he is happy without you too...

[Asker]

Huh?

[NathanDavis]

a lonely person might also be a very clingy person... and will become codependent, meaning... they won't be able to find happiness on other things or on their own, they will always want to be around you

[Stevepro68]

He drops you off and picks you up at the airport

[Asker]

Um I haven't had a reason to go to the airport

[RedInnocent69]

Does it matter?

[Asker]

I mean yes?

[RedInnocent69]

How would either of you know without spending time together, filling loneliness

[Pterodon]

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