Why would a married man stare?

[kmit2004]

There is this guy at work who constantly stares at me. The stare is deep but he is married, doesn't wear his ring and I have heard he won't get a divorce because his wife will take him for everything he has. How do I handle this?

[themastaplan]

i could ask you why married women stare...same answer to both questions...

attraction...

you just have to learn to look at the menu and not order...just because you or your husband are attracted to other people does not mean you're a cheater or unfaithful...it just means that they find the other person appealing...no harm in that

[Anonymous]

It's a trap!

Basically he wants you for your body... Stay away if you want something more. :d

[Barbievan]

He totally likes you and because it happens a lot, he wants you to know it. Now what you do is up to you.
options:

A: Ignore it forever until he stops

B: call him out and tell him stop

C: Stare back and ask if he would like go for 'coffee' sometime. The divorce thing may be a rumour so find out for sure before making any moves.

[Anonymous]

I think he's just attracted to you. He's married though so he can't really do anything about it. I wouldn't do anything about it unless it makes you uncomfortable.

[kmit2004]

It's just getting to that creepy stare and no talking.

[Barbievan]

The quiet ones, are the dangerous ones (no joke) it's slightly secretive already.

[CuriousEddie]

How do you want to handle it? I don't understand what you want.

[kmit2004]

I mean shouldn't men turn away once they get caught? Even if he hates the fact he can't get a divorce because his wife will take all his money

[CuriousEddie]

I assume he finds you attractive. You can either choose to respond or not. Of course, he only be "looking".