A random guy came up in a club and just kissed me...

[Anonymous]

I forgot it but about a year later it happened again. A different place, different random guy. The first time I was out with a bachelorette party so I figured it was just some dare from a bachelor party also out that night. What is going on? Both times I was just talking or dancing with girlfriends. Both times the guys just disappeared. Is this a joke that I don't know about or am I sending out some weird vibe?

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+1 y

Thanks, I like to think I am pretty cute.

But seriously, I had cuter and, umh, not as cute friends out with me both nights. It is weird, not scary, just strange.

I do go out to clubs and bars pretty often, but I have never seen this happen to anyone else. My friends are puzzled too.

[Anonymous]

ewww that's gross! don't let them do that! You can't trust most people's mouths these days! Most people these days are so oversexed that they could have just finished eating a girl out and just put a tic tac in their mouth then they kissed you! UGH or they could have kissed some other girl who just finished sucking c*ck! Why are you just letting guys go up to you and kiss you?

Well, if it happens once, then the guy may be trying to be romantic. But if it happens twice, then sorry hun, no offense, but they may think you look slutty and it's okay for them to do that. I've been around a lot of guys my whole entire life and when there's a girl they truly RESPECT and have a genuine interest in getting to know, they are careful about the way they behave because they don't want to turn her off. So if they really liked you, they would be careful about just going up to you and kissing you.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

is there are rumor going on about u? maybe these guys are connected to each other in some way and have had conversations about u. I don't know but its not cool slap the sh*t out of him next time it happens

[Anonymous]

A) You must be really hot.

B) You are probably fulfilling a life long dream for some guys.

Here is the possible thought process going through the guy's head before the kiss: "I wonder what it would be like to kiss a SUPER hot girl like that? I'm sure it would be amazing. Not that I would ever get this chance, EVER...! What's the worst that could happen? She slaps me? Well at least I got to kiss an amazingly hot girl like that at least once it my life before I die...It would be a memory that would last a lifetime. I'm so scared. Okay...I can do this...Crap...I am so scared! Oh my god,...I-can't-believe-i'm-doing-this! Okay here I go! Destiny here I come!"

You are such a humanitarian... :-)

[ngreenw]

Could be a dare? Or it could just be that you're really hot and they can't help it (and then too shy to talk to you)?!

[ngreenw]

Could just be coincidence...?

[Anonymous]

Isnt this the kind of thing that happens at most clubs?

[ngreenw]

That too!

[Anonymous]

Wow! I don't know. That's weird! Never happens to me! :)

[AmericanHero]

you must look easy lol

[Anonymous]

He's drunk?