My guy friend kissed me when he was drunk!

[cherrybottom12589]

What does this mean? Was he just being drunk and wanting to have a good time and just took advantage of the moment or was it his subconscious mind? Whenever we both hangout and get drunk we act lovey dovey towards each other but this time he initiated the kiss. By the way I like him.

[Rodders]

Difficult. Alcohol removes our inhibitions rather than changes our personality. It allows us to do things we ordinarily wouldn`t due to inhibitions/social constraints etc.

Unfortunately we are all just animals and underneath our intelligence and sophistication we all have the desire to just shag anything that looks attractive.

So does he like you or was it just his sex drive kicking in? Difficult to tell. The only way I could think is watch him when he has just had a few drinks. That's enough to settle any nerves he may have if he likes you and allow him to start getting close but not enough for him to want to have sex with you just because you happen to be female.

The other thing I can think of is did he immediately try to have sex with you while kissing? If he JUST kissed you that shows some level of restraint and control on his part which would suggest he may like you.

A bit rambling, but I hope that makes sense?

[Jonny_]

Every guys goes through loved up stage when drinking... I go through three different stages of drunk and that's one of them. I do go for girls I'm attracted to, but not necessarily girls I'm into. So he could just be wanting a good time. At the same time I'm not a confident guy and drinking has been a way for me to bypass that and I've went after girls I have liked. The thing is, is he actually a shy guy? If he would just normally be up front with a girl or whatever then he was definitely only up for a good time.

[TheoryOfAvarice]

He's probably just attracted to you, and when you're drunk and your inhibitions are down it's a lot easier to act on that.

Whether or not he actually likes you you'll have to figure out while the two of you are sober.

[front2back]

You should report him for sexual harassment, that's what it means!

Just Kidding, everyone gets all touchy feely f***y when they are drunk. He might not like you at all but you were a female and that is all his drunk mind could process about you before he kissed you. You should probably roll with it and see if you can score since you like him.

[Anonymous]

i think you are thinking too much into it, a drunk guy kissing you can't mean much, since he is not in his right state of mine.
you know the proverb "only kids and drunks tells the truth"? well, that's wrong, both kinds and drunks lie like mother*uckers

[sluggofacepoojohnson]

by the way I know you like him :P. I would say it's a 50/50 shot but you know him better. Sometimes all a guy needs is some liquid courage to really show his feelings

[Anonymous]

drunk expressions are NOT sober thoughts.

also, if you like him, then you aren't "friends". don't you get it, there is no "friend zone"

[tiredofwaiting]

There is probably some attraction here.