I've asked a few questions (and still think the guy I'm dating is damaged - and potentially a lost cause). But one of the *other* things I'm having an issue with is his "me" or "I" comments. If I say something (ie., a guy I dated a while back was wealthy, and I said his money was the last thing I liked about him. I wanted other things from the relationship) my new guy countered with, "Yeah, I've dated a few wealthy women who were always trying to buy me things" or If I say something positive about myself like, "While I know I can find men, I want you," he'll turn around and say, "Oh, me, too. I know I'm better looking then most guys my age and women hit on me a lot." He ALWAYS counters, like tit for tat. Now I'm not saying what he's telling me isn't true, but come down off your high horse. He is fond of telling me that "all" his exes want him back. We've also had issue with him bringing up exes - and he talks to most of them, though loves to tell me "I'm with you, not them." Yeah, right. I don't talk to any of my exes. Why would he talk to his? (And I really am hoping for some insight on this). He tells me he never goes backwards, only forwards. Once they're out, they're out. he says. And yet he STILL hasn't removed his most recent ex from his PRIVATE myspace page and added me, though we've discussed my issue with this a few times over the past month. He claims he won't let such a trivial thing ruin our relationship, but it has been quite a while since I first mentioned it - and we even broke up for a week in between - and then got back together and he said EVEN THEN that he would "fix it that weekend" and yet nothing so far. Why? But back to his ego and/or self-centeredness. He constantly tells me "he" has no problem with me, and I'm thinking, "well what if *I* have a problem with you?" It is ALL about HIM, HIM, HIM. The first weekend we had sex, about a month ago (and I say "weekend" because we spent the entire weekend having sex) he didn't give me ONE orgasm (sorry, I can't orgasm during sex). I even mentioned this to him at the end of the weekend and then one other time during the following week and I was told "give me time." I'm like, WHAT? This guy has been around the block, he KNOWS how to pleasure a girl, and yet it was all about HIM. While he has come around and now definitely spends a great deal of time working on my pleasure, I still can't help wondering why he thought nothing of it that first weekend - even after I brought it up! You would have thunk he would have TRIED to do something then and there, but no. He even seemed incredulous that I brought it up! I've also given him two gifts (one inexpensive - a book - and one expensive - a pair of costly eyeglass frames; it was a two month's early birthday gift, but I gave it to him because he had been looking for new glasses and I thought I'd just give them to him before he went out and bought a pair). I got a *relatively* luke warm response to both gifts. Does he think he's owed?