Do girls like it when you ask for their opinion?

[Anonymous]

Or do they expect guys to know what they want? Two different examples: A "watch" vs "somewhere to go for dinner"

[StarrsTwinkle72]

For the watch or like a shirt or something like that, we definitely like to give our opinions.

If we are going out on a dinner date then it depends. Surprises are always nice but if the relationship is new then we usually expect the guy to have the date planned and know already where we are going and everything (unless we have established already that we are gonna plan this particular date then that part is our job for this round. lol). It's better for that, though if you find out what kind of food she likes or something like that and pick the restaurant based off of that. But if you've been together for a bit then just a casual "where do you wanna go for dinner today?" is fine, though still having those surprise dates on occasion is still nice.

[Anonymous]

Not necessary to always ask but if a guy never asks for my opinion on anything it feels like he doesn't consider me an important part of his life. I've had a guy say he loves me but not once did he ask my opinion on something to do with his life or himself.

I definitely don't expect a guy to know what I want unless I'm passionate about a certain something that I've mentioned quite a few times but I don't expect him to think that's what I want all the time or anything so asking is nice.

[harleyq25]

Girls like it when you want there opinion on things like style stuff or little things but when it comes to date ideas or where to eat we would love it if guys could just pick without asking us 20 times what we want

[Robotic]

Why?

[fuddly]

My experience my sig oth doesn't have same level of detail as me

She will get bored

Then she will call me indecisive

If we go shopping she loses interest is set don't buy anything

"What did you bring me for" bla bla bla

[aMuse]

Depends on what it is... Yes they like to be part of the decision making process and that you value their opinion. They want to be involved in stuff that means something to you. Things like clothing choices are your own.

[catarecute]

if she is mature she will not expect u to read her mind. thats a childish thing to do because thats what children expect from parents. mature women understand the importance of communication. but then asking a woman to pick between two gift isn't realy class it make u appear broke. u should just pick the gift withou asking her if she doesn't like it then she is entitled.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I just tell women what I'm going to do... if they want to come with or watch what I'm going to watch, it's cool... if they don't... I'll just fuck them when I get back.

[souka]

yes , I nkow I DO whene a guy asks me what I want it makes me feel that he's intrested and wants to get to nkow me specificly , extra so yes asking girls what they want is great

[MissStrawberry912]

Depends but yes it’s great a guy can consider our opinion but takes lead for both parties is attractive

[Anonymous]

Don't ask for my opinion all the time...I want him to be able to make decisions on his own but I'm fine with it every so often. I don't like choosing where to eat all the time. I would say at most he could ask for my opinion 50% of the time.

[Jasmin01]

Of course I want my opinion to count. Whether it's a watch or where we're going.

[Jonnywayne]

This is true. At least I try to find out the girl's opinion and wishes. Whether I can or want to always take these into account is another question.

[sheikalana]

I appreciate when my husband asks for my opinion.

[LiamJHayden]

Within reason. It shows that you value her, but if it is on nearly everything she might come to see you as indecisive and weak.

[Nikki1989]

On here it is a total waste of time but in the real world, sure.

[love_conquers_lust]

Both. They like that you listen and hear them.

[hbkfan]

Like everyone in the world it depends on the person in general

[RingOfFire]

NEVER ask a girl for her opinion unless you have a good set of earplugs with you!

[chb321]

I guess girls feel more prioritized when we ask them particularly.

[Likes2drive]

I definitely think they like having some input on most decisions

[m33ladEmjay]

They're not gonna say what they think so that idea is useless.

[azgınteke]

Never because even our dressing style is determined by them.

[strateguy632]

they like that.

[Cuddle_Muffin]

well, for me...no not really.

[Robotic]

Why not?

[Cuddle_Muffin]

I've learned that I can insult a guy's motives and make him feel like sh*t.

My taste, isn't what his girl may prefer...and probably not his taste either.

[Robotic]

And so that's why you don't like being asked for your opinion by a guy?

[Cuddle_Muffin]

yes.

[Avicenna]

Most do like it