Girls: What makes you call a guy creepy?

[Anonymous]

Duh, other than "when he's being creepy".

I mean, I've hung out with girls before and I'll say some normal thing, or be flirtatious about something, and she'll be like "You're creepin me out" or "That's so creepy".

To describe myself, I'm 6'6 tall, very slender, I'm not gonna 'say' I'm good looking, but I know I'm not ugly. I smile, I laugh, I don't just drool and stare at girls.

I just don't get it, and it's pretty much the only thing a girl can say that will like seriously piss me off.

So, Girls... What are things a guy will do/say that would make you comment that he's creepy? And would you say that as a joke? Cause it's not something us guys take lightly just fyi

:/

[happy_drifter]

Its all about the vibe that is given. Too much eye contact, standing too close, not taking a hint when the girl is trying to get rid of you, giving a girl attention that she doesn't want, unwanted flirting, these types of things are often related to giving off the "creepy vibe" but are not the sole factors.

I'm currently living in an Asian country, so as a blond girl with blue eyes I get stared at alot. Usually there is nothing creepy about it, its just curiosity. The only times I get creeped out are when the guy is too old or with his girlfriend, yet still stares and tries to flirt; I consider that type of guy a major creep.

But its not any one factor, its the subtle things in body language. Often, what you are thinking will affect your body language in very sublte ways that are difficult to put your finger on. Women's intuition simply refers to women's exceptional ability to read body language intuatively. So, if you are thinking something about how sexy (or whatever else) she is, or are fantasizing (even momentarily) your body language will very sublty show and the girl will interpret this body language as creepy.

Personally, I would never tell a creepy guy he is a creep; I would waste no time in getting far away from him. If the girls aren't running from u, then you can't be that creepy.

[Asker]

Haha thanks. Your last sentence got you the upvote! :)

[adamfk1]

so ugly guys . I'm never getting a girlfriend :'(

[Simple-Simonette]

I find overly intense men can give off the creepy vibe. Too much eye contact, too serious of an expression, extreme nervousness - I'm not comfortable to be around men like that.

But then again, I wouldn't tell a creepy guy he was being creepy - I would just subtly get away from him. I don't know if these girls are your friends or just women you met out somewhere, but if they were feeling really threatened then I don't think they would say anything.

So maybe they're just messing with you.

[Asker]

Just the answer I was looking for, thanks you :)

[Simple-Simonette]

Thank you! Glad I can help :)

[PoisonIvy007]

A lot of girls say it as a joke. If a guy was staring, following me around closely, or kept hitting on me when I already rejected him ; then Id say he was creepy. But that's usually when the guy isn't good looking anyway. So you might just not be around cool girls. Some girls just say flirting or anything remotely sexual is creepy because it makes them uncomfortable. So its not you, its them.

[Hahmotelma]

I think it is... when you get to source of it. Fear. Man that woman wants to have sex with is not creepy, but anyone they don't want to have sex with has great potential of feeling threatening. This is because of" Matriarchy" or so my chauvinistic mentors have told me. Matriarchy is teaching things like all men are rapists until proven innocent.

Well in all seriousness... Actually I think that joke of mine is quite close. Man that woman doesn't want to have sex with, nut in woman's eyes seems to be interested in boinking her can feel threatening.

[handsomejackk]

It's a throwback to tribal times. They feel threatened because you're either not a member of her tribe, or are behaving in a manner that is counter to the norms of the tribe.

A few things:

- NEVER APPROACH GROUPS! When the Tribal Elders are present, you will not stand a chance.

- One idea is to give it straight back to her. Tell her, "I think you're creepy." Take everything she says and turn it around, "Only a creeper would say that! God I don't know if I can be seen with you anymore."

[inthecityre]

Ask them. Ask them what exactly it is that makes you a creeper.

When I say it is usually because the guy gives me a bad vibe. Generally when he`s making a lot of sex jokes in a crude way or is just all up on me uninvited. I really don't use the term but that describes the guys I did.

[veronica12]

An example of something you have done or said. For example Id say a guy is a creep when he starts treating me like his girlsfriend lol. Also, when he is constantly texting me, or appearing in the same places I'm in. Something he would say...it all depends on the tone and whether he's serious.

[Anonymous]

aggressive flirting, invading personal space, touching standing too close, sexual slurs being that you're strangers

talking about rape, or weird unusual fetishes, fighting about politics or strong views about something unnecessary, excessive age difference and flirting = fail

[Anonymous]

It's a widely overused term by females and I wouldn't take it to heart at this point. From what I've seen they say it about nearly any guy they find to be doing something goofy or they aren't used to being around. Seriously, they say it all the time.

[Asker]

F*** it just totally throws me off my groove.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it's really annoying to hear anymore lol. Every time I see a girl call someone that I think of a strange hunchback basement dweller of a guy

[secondbestkiller]

I think I know why they might be calling you creepy. You're quite tall...very slender...are you Slender Man?

[Anonymous]

When he seems obsessive, possessive, perverted, fake, emotionally unstable, stuff like that.

If a guy is looking at me for too long I'll consider him creepy.

[adamfk1]

if he was ugly then he is creepy is what she is trying to say

[Anonymous]

i only call a guy creepy when I'm not attracted to him if I'm attracted to a guy and he's being a creeper his good looks make me forget he's being a creep

[liliane_portman]

amen that's so true it hurts

[anonymousbastard]

Just because you don't find someone attractive does not mean, their a creep. That's like a guy saying he thinks/believes all women shallow because he doesn't find her attractive.

[Cyhhgg]

@anonymousbastaryo Don't waste your breathe, you fool.

[ACoate3]

Are you serious?

[Anonymous]

It usually just means unattractive, at least "creeper" does.

[Anonymous]

ask them...i think if a girl doesn't find a guy attractive and he keeps flirting with her then its creepy

[Anonymous]

Hey... I am 6'6" and NOT creepy. Not slender either.

[Asker]

I think tall people are badass lol