Girls, How do you define a "Creepy" guy?

Girls, How do you define a "Creepy" guy?Since the signs and causes of what makes a "Creepy" guy change so wildly between Women it can be really confusing to find a common line in the sand on the issue. So for the guys here ladies, Where does the creepiness start? And how do you define it overall?

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  • The ten rule.
    1- way to calm voice
    2- ask’s to many personal questions
    3- Gets in my bubble space
    4- talks about how he has a remote home/place
    5- ironically knows where I live
    6- says creepy hypothetical’s
    7- stalkerish
    8- finds excuses to be with me
    9- ask’s to take pictures of me
    10- states ”I know you.” or ”I see you, when you're alone.”

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  • Someone who makes me feel overly uncomfortable or scared. There are so many different things (and ways of doing those things) that can do that, it's difficult to define.

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  • My creepy Spider sense usually tingles when someone is too close to me and without permission; this is especially true if this is true for every interaction I have with them. They are usually really invasive and asking too many personal or intimate questions all the time. You catch them looking at you far too often, or when you do, they don't look away... their eyes linger. In conversation with others, they make it seem like you are much more than you are, like they may say, we hang out all the time or she really enjoys it when I walk in the room because I see her smiling at me when none of that is actually happening in reality. They are also just really eager to want to help you, or walk you to your car, or wanting to know what your plans are for the weekend and can they come. They are overall just way too intense, and make you feel uncomfortable and uneasy to be around them without witnesses.

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    • Believe it or not but I used to work at a job that required me to walk people out to their car. I wasn't Security or anything just told that it was company policy after sundown. And since I was the closest person to the exit I got stuck with the job.

  • staring at you, spaming you with likes on insta, gets mad when you don't respond to a text he sent ten minutes ago, or even thirty minutes ago, like you could be busy or sleeping. I hate it when guys freak out after you don't respond right away. If he says he wants to marry you like one week after starting to date you. If he tries to smell you, RED FLAG THAT'S CREEPY AF. ALSO if he says shit like the guy in the pic above hahahah

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  • This reminds me of this guy I used to play COD with. I told him I would be right back, I was doing laundry and had to go get the load out of the dryer, I forgot it. He asked me when I returned if it was still warm. I felt it was a weird question and chose to ignore it. He wouldn't let it go, lol he kept asking until I finally said, uh, yeah I guess so. He replied with Ahhhh it is so nice when it comes out nice and warm. 😕😞🤐

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  • It's mostly about guts. If I have a bad feeling about a guy it usually turns out to be true.
    He knows too muh about you
    He invades personal space
    He looks at you or smiles creepily
    He talks too nicely
    He's always in the same place as you

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  • I'm not sure. It's definitely a feeling. But I suppose it has to be caused by something. Maybe when I feel like the guy want's something from me that I don't want to give him (time, attention, love, validation etc.).

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  • I actually dated a guy who was "creepy" but I confused it with sexy turned out he was radiating sex appeal because he was a hardcore porn addict and pervert who also liked little girls. Creep.

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  • Hmm, I don't mind it when a guy looks at me and admires me. It somehow makes me feel reassured that maybe, perhaps, I am not as hideous as I think I am. However, there is a significant difference between admiration and downright creepiness. If he asks you out and you say no, yet he persists, creepy. If he stares intently at places where he shouldn't (boobies, ass, other regions) creepy. If he follows you around... creepy. If he is wayyyy tooooo old for you... creepy. If he is being an asshole i. e. "hey baby, what's shaking? wanna let off some steam tonite at my place?" creepy. So if a guy likes me, i'd prefer him to take it slow. Ask me out to a nice date or something (even a coffee shop is fine), but don't be all like "hey bacon, how you doin mama?"

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  • Someone who stalks you, talks about random cruel stuff or have cold blood. Pops up anywhere unexpectedly. Being in private bubble, always knowing where u are what u did and didn't do...

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  • That is really hard to define. It's not so much an exact list of things he may do. It's more about how he makes each girl feel. I have seen girls call guys creepy just for sending a friend request or complimenting them nicely. For me, it's all about context. Did he overstep a boundary? That's the main thing. A guy drove away with me in his car once at night. I kept asking to e taken back and he wouldn't. He parked in a dark place next to a river and got handsey. That is the creepiest thing that's ever happened to me. There were just waaay too many lines crossed that night. I still get terrified thinking about it. A simpler example would be a random guy on the street grabbing your hand and kissing it. It makes no sense in the context in which it is happening, so it is creepy.

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  • If he is saying I love you right away or too quickly that's a red flag right there. If he is always staring or is way too clingy. There is just a creepy vibe you get off of them.

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  • If he won’t leave u alone after u told him repeatedly and doesn’t accept the fact u don’t want him

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  • Just don't be creepy, okay. I think creepy men know they're creepy, they're just hoping you don't object to their creepiness.

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  • Usually an older guy around his 40's that tries to talk to younger girls even though they are of legal age.

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  • Doesn't take no for an answer.
    Is plain weird (for example my age and hangs out with 15 year olds)
    Smells bad.
    Makes others uncomfortable

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  • If he stares at you or if he is being too much attentive to you

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  • Some of them I find sexy but those class A creepys I wanna knock them out

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  • A Weirdo... Period. lolxxoo

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  • A guy that's disheveled looking with bad hygiene.

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  • Anyone who makes you feel unsafe

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  • It's just a feeling.

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  • Stalkerish, knows too much about you, obsessive,

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  • The one in the photo

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