How would you know if a lesbian has a crush on you?

[Cuddle_Muffin]

I mean...i can't tell if the girl is being friendly or 'friendly'.

[shumailkazimi]

Well, clearly, there's no way to know for sure without just outright asking her, but here are some signs she may have the hots for you:

1.She responds eagerly when you complain about men...which can lead to point no 2

2.She tells you about how much better women are.

3.She tells you that gender shouldn't matter

4.She asks you if you've ever kissed a girl / dated a girl / thought about being with a girl.

if any of these points are valid then there are chances that she is not straight ...more valid points more probability that's she is not straight...do let me know which traits are matching

[jayrex]

How would you know?

When she walks up to you and says, "I have a crush on you". Then you know for certain.

Or is that too obvious...

[Cuddle_Muffin]

If she ever said that I probably wouldn't ask this question.

[Prettygurl12]

Watch her physical touch. Do you think she's touching you too much? Do you think she laughs too much around you? Focuses on you more than anyone else when in a group of people? Those are just some ideas. Probably the same as guys who like you.

I'm straight, but have seen some of my bi and lesbian friends interact and that's just what I've gained from the situation.

[Cuddle_Muffin]

yeah,but uh...this is so weird and odd to me...

[Anonymous]

The way they look at you.the smirk on eir face, they're checking you out. :)

[Anonymous]

Don't worry about it so much. If she knows you're straight, and not attracted to girls, she's not going to run the very serious risk destroying your friendship by coming on to you, even if she does have a crush on you.

[Operations]

I think that if they may flirt or pay a lot more attention to you than anyone else-it's probably a given they have a crush on you.

[Konnour]

What about asking it to her?

[Cuddle_Muffin]

Yeah, Iike that isn't already awkward enough...

[Konnour]

Do you have a better idea how to make it clear?

[Cuddle_Muffin]

No, that's why I asked...quite frankly I'm not into girls...so I really don't want to trigger something I don't even understand. I have been ignoring it...but things seem peculiar between us.