Why do guys treat blondes better?

[Anonymous]

It seems like everywhere I see blondes (or light hair) girls always get special treatment from guys. and If your a guy and right now your saying that you don't your lying. whether it be opening a door or just other small things. why are guys like this? Once I dyed my hair blonde , I was so disgusted my the attention from guys I dyed it back right away.. It makes me think guys are dumb. and makes me loose hope in them. even in attraction there could be an 8 with dark hair but they choose the 6 with blonde hair and 3 pounds of makeup. why do you think this is. Please be honest don't just say "I don't do that!!!" Because you do subconsciously

[welper]

Listen - not every guy is particular to blondes - BUT MANY (A LOT) ARE -- call it dumb if you want and whether nature or society created that preference, it's a reality so DEAL with it and move on. From the responses it seems a lot of guys like brunettes too so give your energy to guys like those and leave the "dumb" ones alone. I prefer blondes all else equal but it would make me "dumb" for sure to treat anyone different based their hair color. If subconsciously I do this -- I feel terrible but isn't it natural to be more attentive to what you find more attractive?

[Brandonw98]

I honestly have no idea what you mean by that where I am girls dye their hair brown to be treated better mainly because brunettes well first of all brunettes typically are much more beautiful but honestly I think it's because blondes are some what lacking in the brain which is actually true from what I've seen anyway

[Raebies]

Hah, I'm blonde and I don't get special treatment. Then again I'm not bleach blonde, so maybe it's just the fake blondes you're referring to. I've never even dyed my hair before. From my experience, blondes don't get any sort of special treatment over girls who aren't blonde. Attractive girls often get special treatment whether they're blonde, brunette, redhead, or rainbow striped. Maybe the girls you're talking about are just attractive and it has nothing to do with them being blonde.

[Arwens-Fire]

I find your assessment largely untrue. I'm assuming you live in a small town somewhere. But where I live, MEN give WOMEN they think are ATTRACTIVE Attention. It doesn't matter if they are blonde, brunette, red etc. Sounds like you are sipping on some HATERade. Don't worry about other people, worry about yourself.

[Anonymous]

Lmao at all the people saying that it's untrue. There have been so many scientific studies done about how men subconsciously treat blonde women better than brunettes. Being blonde is linked to youth, good health, and beauty. Look up the studies online before you go out of your way to deny it.

[Anonymous]

I think its due to the stereotype that blondes are beautiful. Hmm as someone who have a naturally black hair, I think it can be true in an extent. I am currently coloured my hair blonde (not too light) and I have noticed I attract more guys. I think its silly. This never happened when I was with my black hair though. Maybe it just a coincidence or they really fancy blonde that much :/

[sovetskii13]

This is true to some extent based on studies. I'm not sure why it's like that. It might have something to do with society, culture, or just how most guys are wired. There is no direct answer. At least not yet.

[Settingemstraight]

you sound butthurt.

I prefer brunettes to blondes so i don't know why i would treat blondes better, even subconsciously.

Black hair or dyed hair are my personal favorites anyway. So calm down amigo.

[Asker]

you sound 15

[Settingemstraight]

interesting assumption. Do you always judge people by their age instead of actually addressing them like human beings? Or are people younger than you automatically beneath you?

[Asker]

you really are 15? lol soorryyHA

[Settingemstraight]

no i'm not. I'm not even under 18. But when I WAS 15 i hated people acting like you do

[KLTheErudite7229]

Don't worry about it. I think that the reason you may feel like we treat blondes better is perhaps some of us are attracted to the blondes therefore we treated them better. I use to be so attracted to the blondes but they are just dumb after all.

[stillagoodgirl]

Maybe because they stand out. There's more people with dark hair in the world than blonde, naturally at least

I have black hair & still get the door held open

[Bluegameroyon]

"It makes me think guys are dumb. and makes me loose hope in them"
loose.
LOOSE.

hah!

well, i treat redheads much more differently than all other people. at least, when they look decent.

[napoleonebonaparte]

You are probably right...
Me too though..
But on the contrary I am treated the same by the girl, because it seems that a guy with a beautiful hair is better than one who is almost bald like me!

[NerdInDenial]

Because blondes are what most men prefer. It's a sign of youth and vitality.

[bomdottcom]

More often than not, blondes are more attractive and look innocent yet sexy.

That's why.

[RedThread]

I don't treat people differently based off of hair color.. I think that's silly.

[Anonymous]

Lmao. If a girl is pretty period, they will do anything for her. Its ugly women that get no attention.

[catguy]

i don't do that, i like brunettes more.

[SaltandVinegar]

No redheads are my kryptonite!