Polls: Guy's Behavior

What things or qualities really counts for a desirable man?

So there was a spider on the wall (the biggest spider I'd ever seen) so I internally start freaking out and hurry to tell him, (I knock on the door and tell him about the spider) and the first thing he says is "so what im I supposed to do just hop outta the shower and get it?" And let me yell u it was the most annoyed insensitive tone I'd ever heard him muster up... by time he's outta the shower he gets the spider and puts it outside. Later that day I bring up to him how I didn't like how he spoke to me and that it was rude, he continues to tell me that it was childish of me to bother him in the shower and that I should have waited to say anything to him until he's out of the shower, that im a grown women afraid over a spider and that im too emotional and need to think first before I do and say things to him... how am I suppose to know what I should say or so so it doesn't annoy him or aggravate him... he's actually like this outside of the slider incident... like if he's on his phone a lot and I try to get his attention he will tell me to chill out or ask why I'm acting like that... it's really hurtful and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells and can't be myself because I'm afraid he will react aggressive or insensitive... what do you guys think?

I know men are prideful and some often feel entitled to everything including certain women they pursue. Rejection must suck for these types of men. Just wondering tho do you think a man can become a bully, bitter, mean and hateful towards a woman whose out of his league or who won't give him the time of day?

boyfriend of 4 years, I asked him last night “is the mandolorian gay?” He was like “what? Why does it matter? I don’t know “ I said I’m talking about Pedro pascal and he said “ oh I don't know you gotta be specific “ that was it no big deal but you think it’s suspicious that he reacted that way? He’s always been accepting of everyone no homophobic behavior

Here's two examples: "Chief that's your decision" "Project is due today chief"

And girls, would you get turned off by it and break up with the guy?

He went out last Saturday. Got a new Instagram follower but replied to me no I don’t have someone. But he lied about going out. But his replies were different to usual. He said he’d come up Tuesday but I annoyed him and he’s not replied since. He didn’t do his usual going to the gym. On Monday and Tuesday. But he does have other friends so maybe it’s that. He was out again this weekend with no new followers

There’s this guy I kinda liked. He tried to get me to give him head and I said no. Then he kept being rude saying I should be easy. He kinda has a thing with my friend where he says he doesn’t like her and there isn’t anything. She swears they’re in love and he has no other options. I know he does like I’m not dumb. Trust no man lmao We were all chilling him, my friend (t) and his friend. He always asks me to talk, says my talking has gotten less and more boring. So I told my friend (t) to talk. He said she’s even more boring I want to hear you talk. She’s conveniently more attractive. She’s having sex with him, I’m not. But do I have a chance? I really like him but I feel like because I didn’t give myself up I’m less of an option. She’s my best friend. But I had a thing with him first but without sex so she didn’t consider it.

Based on the posts on the internet, American men really can't contain their hatred. I'd like to think that British men don't dislike Indian women but they could be better at hiding it.

My boyfriend and I been together 3 almost 4 years. I’ll admit I am a nag and require a lot of attention. I’ve been trying to back off and not be too much, and it seemed to help us and I’ve been trying to get over my insecurities. I saw him yesterday and we had a good time and laughed made dinner together. Asked him if he loved me and he said yes and got a little annoyed when I asked a lot. Today I was busy hanging out with my pal and I called him to say I was all done and I asked if he missed me and he said “ no I just saw you yesterday” should I be offended I hung up. also my boyfriend has been not an emotion full guy and he doesn’t like to get into full feelings. I am the opposite and I love to say how I feel (I miss you etc love you) he’s not into that

The man I love and dated for a few months before he got sick, said months ago that he isn't sure we will ever get back together. However, he has steadily moved on to constantly hugging me, daily sometimes for hours long tickling me, random unnecessary touching my arm or my back, rubbing my neck, brushing my arms up and down the sides like he is trying to warm me up before I walk home in the cold. He refuses to let me hide my face when I laugh from him tickling me because I feel ugly and silly. Constantly tells me he thinks I'm beautiful. Something I can't belive myself. We often walk down the street holding hands or hugging as we walk. He even playfully tugs me back when I try to pull away. There are friend hugs and then there are something more hugs. I can't tell if he knows the difference. He ensures I eat and sleep, texts and calls. We bearly go a day apart or not in contact. However, he hasn't kissed me, or said he has changed his mind. It's SUPER complicated because his illness effects memory, knowing his own feelings, picking up on other's feelings, and even physical elements, therefore I'm not sure if all I stated above hints he might still be romantically interested or if I'm just wishful thinking. Sometimes I feel so foolish because logically he could be in love with me or interested in me but isn't ready for more yet because of the way things are for him health wise. Then there is a strong chance I'm just a huge fool. Any advice would be appreciated.

I just got braces this year actually and I hated them at first. I was even smiling without teeth showing because of them. But now I'm just trying to own them and be more confident.

Actually I feel a bit strange to my older cousin's attitudes on me since 1 years ago.

He's attitude was like :

1. There is anonymous number represent from philipine calls me in the mid of the night without giving any responds. Just silent. And suddenly ended up the call. I thought this number refers to my older cousins, because I just knew that he just already move abroad to philipines at the same times while this number calls me. And this number is such a new phone number...

Perhaps he knew my number from my little cousin that I give her my phone number. Because in this case I never give my number phone to him before. I alredy analyze and check this number phone identity but its seems like he try to hide the identity.

2. Next day after that calls, He make a instagram story with caption that he is in the condition that he has a girlfriend but at the same time he likes someone else.

3. He secretly looks at me from the distance but not too brave to looks at me directly in front of my eyes.

4. He give me some money through my sister. while he was sitting next to me. Why would he doesn't just give that money directly on me? Why while I say thank you on him he just looks awkward and doesn't brave enough to looks on me?

P. S. :He's not typically such an introvert or shy person.

Is that a sign that he has crush on me? I want to ask him about this, but I'm quite afraid about the consequences.

There is a guy who is like a friend and I think I might have a tiny crush on him and at times his behaviour reflects it too , I mean , he sends me memes when I get busy and stop talking to him. He lives in a different state and we don't meet often but when we do. I get a vibe that he is into me. He is into dark humour and I am not a big fan of it. I am confused whether his hiding his story from me is bcz he puts dark memes or stuff in his insta stories and doesn't want me to see it , thinking I'll judge him.. or He is not into me at all and Its because I am not that close or important to him and he finds me judgmental and uncool. Frankly I am cool person I just don't enjoy memes on sensitive and problematic issues. :'(

Guys' opinion is welcome.. At first he pursued me, flirted, I reciprocated and he suggested to go out. I said yes but he never made plans. Then he started playing games, when I ignored his message once he said 'you never liked me'. When he was transferring money to me he said it was 'for coffee'. I thought he was just playing me so I started treating him like he doesn't exist. He tried to talk to me and stared A LOT then but I ignored him. Then on social media he would post 'don't trust people who don't reply' or 'people don't know what they have until they lose it'. I thought it may've been directed to me. After holidays when there was no contact between us I decided to ask him out. He didn't reply but he started staring again and wanted my attention. We started talking again. He messaged me for weeks, was flirty in messages, sent me hearts and hugs, always texted first and a lot but avoided me irl. He stopped initiating physical contact though (at first he was also physical). He would kind of avoid me or run away from me, avoided eye contact too. He honestly seemed frightened of me. Recently he suggested that we meet but with my friend invited too (he didn't flirt with her but me all that time). I confronted him, asked if he's even interested, added that I don't like texting, told him either we hang out or to leave me alone. He said he was sorry for not organizing a meeting and said he wants to continue our relationship, and said I shouldn't be negative and overreact and that I can always tell him anything I want face to face. I replied to tell me when he's free. No response but he still wanted to talk to me in person. In total I asked him out like FOUR times already. Now he ignores me. Doesn't text anymore but is very nice in person. What's going on? Why is he doing this to me? At first he chased me a lot and now it's like a different person.

I am petite with small boobs and a bigger bum. He had only been with the opposite body type to me before. I am slim but not really skinny.

He said years ago he likes bigger boobs moving but then recently siad he doesn’t care for that and doesn’t remember saying it

He told me he loves my small boobs and they are easily the ever hee seen in person. He said they barely move during sex

Then recently he has said he doesn’t care for boobs.

He has always said he’s a bum guy.

But is it true does he really not care for boobs?