Polls: Guy's Behavior

This married man calls me and speaks to me all the time. This has been going on years. We haven’t had sex, but have been sexual. Most conversations over the phone don’t discuss sex. I keep ending things, but he always comes back calling again. Does he actually like me? I wouldn’t ever consider it, but I want to know his thoughts about it.

I heard from friends they prefer girls who are sexy and that they go for girls they think are sexy. Is that true? Kind of explains why I never get approached…

I invited someone I’m interested in on a little getaway next week… he’s usually quite busy but he’s kind of in between jobs right now so I thought it might work. This is how the convo went after I asked him if he wanted to come: “wow this is real cool! I’ll have to get back to you on this one. I need to free myself up. I will certainly let you know by tomorrow night.” Then I said: “no rush! I totally understand if you’re busy, I know you have a lot going on right now! Good night😊” then he replied with “ thank you so much for your understanding. It means a lot! Night” That was almost 3 days ago now, and I haven’t heard anything! At first I thought that he was going to get back to me… but now after not hearing from him I’m wondering if he subtly declined and I just misunderstood? Do you think I should text him to clarify? Or just wait and see if he messages me? I did say no rush.. so maybe he’s just needing more time to figure it out or I totally missed it and he basically said no already. Lol Thank you!

At the time I asked him he said in order it’s my eyes then my hands then bum etc

Does this mean he’s not attracted to me. He changes is each time. When I ask sometimes it’s my bum is his favourite then it’s my legs etc

I used to have a Girls ask Guys account in high school when I was just a confused little teen asking about my crushes. I felt like at the time it was mostly other confused teens and young adults trying to figure out what feeelings were. but that was an old account thar I have abandoned and forgotten how to login

I created this burner account to ask about my current social and some past mistakes but I feel like this site is a lot more toxic then it was 4-6 years ago. that's not to say it was great then. There were people asking for nudes or spilling there messy abusive relationships. but now this site seem more politized and angry. There are constant post on how feminism ruined everything or how every girl is a moody lying slut. there are very thinly veiled post about gender roles and society that try to pretend they're just about dating advice.

I know this kinda content isn't just on G@G, I always seen this on Youtube, Reddit and any densely male populated site. I also noticed that most of the replies to questions are more male. even on very popular questions. this entire place feels like I'm on r/redpill or r/askreddit or r/amI theasshole

I just feel like men have gotten angrier in general but I can especially see it on this site. I am wondering if it's the kinda of content I've been engaging with or if this is what everybody sees.

So i regularly get guys trying to wind me up, looking to see if they can get a reaction out of me. They generally smile while theyre doing it but they never ask me on a date. I look vulnerable so are they just doing it because they know it might make my day or have they been teased to act that way with me?

The reason why i ask is cos someone came up to me, i think he was quite a bit older than me going by the beard. Im tired as its been a long day so didn't get a good look but he mustve saw me from afar or maybe seen me in the restaurant we were in I don't know but i was struggling due to being tired and not having eaten all day. I was finally eating and he comes up to ask for a chip, i said no twice but he kept persisting then just grabbed one. On his way past on his bike he yelled thanks for the chip i liked it. Like i didn't make them😂he was with his mates

Besides this was my crushes used to wind me up a lot. And smile while doing it

Im really not the prettiest of girls i have a rubbish face and dont wear make up. Im just about trying to get by everyday so don't make a general effort

Agree or disagree.

We had previously spoken about how wrong it was he agreed. Then did it a week later

I send him nudes all the time and he doesn’t really bother. He will occasionally be like holy shit amazing. He used to beg me for videos when we were apart.

I sent him this one video and he said he used it a couple of times and had it saved. But didn’t use it anymore cos he’d seen it.

When I asked why he followed he said “curiosity see what was posted” and he genuinely had no intention to do anything with the nude account.

Told me he looks at nude photos and it does nothing at all for him. He sees my nudes and it’s nice but does nothing just like others don’t.

It's an interesting question. They're both technically women.

However, what is a "real" woman to you? By real I mean someone that you can see being a lasting girlfriend, potential wife, someone you'd be proud to show to your friends & family.

Option A
Someone who dresses revealingly, sleeps with just anyone who shows them a bit of attention; who usually has little to no self-respect or esteem and that's why behave as do

Option B
Someone who doesn't dress revealingly, who doesn't sleep with just anyone who shows them a bit of attention; who usually has self-respect or esteem hence behaves differently

My friends and I were talking about this, and just want to get your perspective.

I'm friends with a guy, we used to talk a lot. I miss him so I texted him and told him I wanted to stay in touch. He invited me to come play video games with him (He knows I like them). Anyway I've never been to his house but I don't mind at all. But my female friend is saying he wants sex and now I'm nervous. She's very "sexually active" but I'm not. He also told me he wanted to go bowling together one day. Does him inviting me to his house mean he's thinking about sex?

I keep hearing this online but not really seeing it happen in real life but I'm not going to lie it sounds really nice. If it's true and turning 30 magically makes me less noticeable to men that would be really convenient but I look young for my age and I'm skeptical.

I'm not willing to get fat or stop taking care of my skin because those affect my health and comfort in my own body but if there was like s subtle hormone change men could smell or something that made them less interested that would be amazing!

This guy and I have been talking for a couple months now after meeting at a social event (kind of fast and long responses) and we even facetimed for a long time once but yesterday he was in the same room as me and I feel like/was told he was watching me and how I was acting and now his responses are slow and short, have I turned him off?