Sex on second date, a good or bad idea?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It depends on whether you’re both feeling that was as far as looking for something g serious. Everyone is different. You just have to gauge it on how things go. It could go either way. He may not want a relationship if you give it up so east. Because he may think, we’ll if she’s already giving it up to me this quick how many times has she done this. She desperate? Also considering your age that may make him think yes you’re desperate. Chances are he will fuck you but is he going to take you seriously as far as a relationship. I met a girl who I had sex w on the first date. We were together for a year. But I was in the military, she couldn’t handle the separation so we went our own way. It’s hard to tell you. I wish I could see into the future to tell you yes it’s a go, or no you’re going to crash and burn. Is there a person you’re going to be going out w? If so do you know him already?

UniquelyBasic · Accepted Answer

Depends how long in between dates and how much time you've spent together. I would say to wait at least 2 or so weeks just to get rid of the guys who are looking for just sex. Seems most of them will probably leave after a few weeks and the ones who are willing to stay after those few weeks will most likely be the ones you want, if you're looking for a relationship.

Audiofox · Accepted Answer

It depends on the relationship you’re looking for or the one you already have. When you have a truly great connection with someone (and you’ll know it when you feel it) the timing of the first time isn’t an issue. Most of the time I advocate for waiting it out to see, though, and doing that as often as possible. Always make sure intentions are clear. I’ve found myself misinterpreting the term “hang out” as meaning just getting to know each other before telling a man off for assuming I was DTF without even making that clear in the first place.

DubiousIntentions · Accepted Answer

Doesn't make any difference what anyone thinks, people are going to do what they want to do. It's nice to know their name and a little about them first. Would be bad to have sex with a serial killer, no matter what date you have sex with them on. How awkward would that be? 🤢🤢🤢

cherieday · Answer

Bad idea. I mean no judgement I tend to give it up on the 3rd date but in my heart I'd like to know the person 1 full year before decided whether I want them to stick it in. I think it time for me to be more mature of about the intimate relationships I have. Having someone better your body is a big deal, I wish I had always seen it that way.

Paulalove98 · Answer

Me and my boyfriend had sex the first time we met. I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing for some people. It depends how you guys are feeling and the energy.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

In your update, you say you want a relationship. It is better to hold out and to get to know the person first.

Guy13 · Answer

Very bad idea. Soon as sex happens, they think little of you.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Whatever you both want to do it doesn't really matter

Wiredone · Answer

I never had sex until we dated for at least a month. I wanted to be sure we were going to be together

Still-alive · Answer

you'll know when it feels right. if not the 2nd date.. perhaps the 3rd or forth. there's no certain time

LiamJHayden · Answer

To me a bad idea. Pretty much guarantees a short relationship.

Nikki1989 · Answer

When the time feels right, you do it.

Lowiu · Answer

If it feels right for you its good

Iron_Man · Answer

Very bad idea

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