Guys, do you respect a girl more if she still lives with her parents?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

A total of 98 votes were cast: 24 girls and 74 guys. See detailed results

[ArtemisSilver]

Depends on the reasoning, but family co-operating is a good thing. As long as she's got something going for her and would move in with me then it's all good.

[Anonymous]

It depends on her age. But it's not something men judge women for in the same way women judge men for it.

[FilmGuy93]

It doesn't really have any impact on my impressions of her.

[NewYorkCity]

Depends on a reason. If she lives with her parents, because she is unwilling to get an education and a job, zero respect and she is a Big RedFlag in my book. BUT if she has an education and a job, but decided to keep living with her parents, I definitely would love to have her as my potential Wife.

[Savannah44]

What about if the girl's mother is elderly and she's there to help her?

[NewYorkCity]

@Savannah44 Ok, fine, let us use your scenario here but in a realistic way. If a girl stays at home to look out after her mother, I'll give her a Big 👍, but ones her mother leaves this mortal coil, than what? Does she has a job where she can sustain her self and continue living? Or she was living with her mother and using her resources to the very end and now she is desperately trying to find anyone so she can live for free on their ship.

[Savannah44]

Who cares? Why is it so important to you? Maybe some people just aren't lucky enough to be rich, or maybe they aren't book smart, or didn't have the money or time to get a degree, Maybe they got a certification in a field that doesn't pay that well, and/or the cost of living is just too high which it is by the way ) and You're going to shame them and judge them for that? That's just wrong

[Savannah44]

And who said that's my scenario? You're quick to make assumptions.

[NewYorkCity]

@Savannah44 Don't be mad at me, be mad at a world where everything becoming expensive and where both men and women don't want to have a partner who is or might be a freeloader. Life is difficult and life is unfair and nobody wants to take care of a B. F. or G. F who didn't do anything with their life, because of their laziness and carelessness. Besides, you don't have to be Jeff Bezos rich, or even make more than $60K a year to live a comfortable and happy life, but you do have to be either Book Smart of Life Smart to live a comfortable and happy life.

[NewYorkCity]

@Savannah44 Plus, I didn't assume anything, I simply took an example that you gave and used it as a scenario.

[Haha456]

it depends on the type of guy. if you're looking for a successful, ambitious, career man or an older guy , likely it'll be a turn off.

If you're talking to an average joe or a younger man, makes a mediocre salary, has nothing much going on for him, not super ambitious, it won't be a turn off.

[UniquelyBasic]

Depends because I don't like to judge too quick and put someone in a box. People move at different paces and have totally different circumstances financially. I don't respect a woman more for living with her parents though nor do I look down on them.

[DoctorSex]

Depends on the mindset of her parents. If they're liberal minded, then I already know what goes on in that house. If they're strict and traditional. Then yes. She gets extra points.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[JamesDiaz11]

It doesn't make a difference either way, but I'm far more forgiving of a woman living with her parents (I even think it's a good idea) than I'd assume women would be for a guy living with his parents.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Living with or not living with parents doesn't tell me anything worthy of respect.

I respect people on the basis in how they conduct themselves and treat me and others.

[Kabluie]

No, I moved out at 18 to go to university hours away and never looked back. There generally is a reason why they are still at-home. Either recent college grad which is okay. Dead end job, not so okay.

[LiamJHayden]

In your age range, probably because it would be more likely that she was not promiscuous. No guaranty, just more likely.

[Kaneki05]

That don't make any sense who would respect that more and why?
Now not caring either way that makes sense.

[DarkWinterNights]

Indifferent. Is she just mooching off them or is she helping them around the house. Does she have her own car? Does she work? Does she help them with rent?

[RavVid]

I think we like that a girl is family oriented and it is a quality we look for in a girl.

[dustybiker]

There are often reasonable reasons for something out of the ordinary.

[kramchancel]

same thing for men as well. I think living with parents is cool. BUT the person must at least be working or going to school.

[loveslongnails]

It has nothing to do with respect unless she's freeloading and not contributing. It also depends on her age and why she's there.

[OddBeMe]

Sorry to say I don’t respect anyone still living with their parents. I get it though, housing is rough. It’s not a negative, per se. But it ain’t a positive in the respect meter.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I do respect her more.

[Anonymous]

Indifferent for me.

Me I moved out as soon as I could to escape from the domestic abuse and being treated like a puppet, that has no own will. I was 22 years old.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I mean I still live with my parents so I can't completely judge her now can't I.

[AsaKyo]

I still do, but I'm really hoping to move out at some point

[Redstang88]

No I prefer a more independent girl, but it’s not a deal breaker either

[Anonymous]

Those things honestly never matter for women.
Like her job, her income, her education, etc.
We don’t generally care about that shit the way women value us for that shit.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I respect all girls regardless whether they lives with their folks or not.

[Mangospacho]

Yea, especially if she is there to take care of them since they’re elderly.

[Sasha0426]

I live at home still. I highly advice men to NOT date me.

[Samhanks]

Why not? When she respects her mother by living with her, I too respect her !

[Raaj4you]

Boys and Girls who live with parents have good moral, ethics and family values.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes! That makes her a lot more attractive for a serious relationship.

[Ryfyle]

I mean shits fucked out there, who am I to judge if you live with your folks.

[misogynistic_pig]

I don't respect any woman.

[Jamie05rhs]

No. I respect her more if she doesn't.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It doesn't make any difference

[Twalli]

It doesn't affect my respect

[Rose_M_Harto]

It really depends.

[melanieeeB]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Not something I even think or care about.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope

[es20490446e]

It depends.

[Anonymous]

Why would that be worthy of MORE respect?

[Asker]

You tell me, hence the question

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, I can't answer an illogical question. The wording of the question suggests that you think they should be worthy of MORE respect.

[Asker]

LOL. It’s a neutral, straight forward question. You’re assigning emotions to the wrong thing, buddy

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, anonymous... my bad I didn't realize this was just a troll question. Have a nice day hun. 👍🤣

[Iron_Man]

It’s fine

[WTFdivorce]

More? No