Polls: Guy's Behavior

I met this A guy first, we liking each other, then I met the B guy, he's so fun.!

Met a guy during traveling and we talked a lot and got along really well. He has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend were both aware of. He gave me his number before we went our separate ways. The convos we had were really fun and he seems like a really cool guy that I’d like to be friends with. Should I text him or is that going to cause issues with my boyfriend since it’s a guy?

Not necessarily body builder, but somehow stronger but would still apply to being soft

(Doesn’t apply to me)

So I posted a photo of me on insta, it wasn’t sexual or anything. It’s just an “artsy” pic of me looking away from the camera, fully clothed (no skin showing whatsoever bcs I’m wearing a coat), with trees and leaves as the background. Then some guy that I know, that I have 0 history or chemistry with, commented “beautiful!”. I always reply to comments or at least give them a like, and since I don’t know him that well I just decided to “like” the comment and leave it as it is.

My boyfriend saw it and he flipped out. I understand that he might be uncomfortable with it but he started accusing me of flirting back with him, he said that I’m opening the doors to infidelity and that now he thinks that I flirt around with guys online (and offline). He started making all kinds of negative assumptions about me and even brought up my pasts (with my exes and all, which is all irrelevant…)

All I did was like a comment, I never talked to him not even in the DMs so I thought it was just a harmless comment. Is he overreacting or am I being insensitive?

I5 guys I’ve liked in a row have all been taken and I wouldn’t realize they had a girlfriend until way after to started crushing on them so it’s not like I want a taken guy or something. It’s incredibly annoying because the most at least superficially ideal guys for me will already have a girlfriend (and ofc I’m not gonna intervene) but all the guys interested in me wanna play games and are never genuine.

As mentioned, this man is a friend with benefit. When we met, we weren't looking for relationship. I met him few times but when I was at his place last, he told me to stay. Out of kindness? Wanting more sex? Maybe he's developed feeling?

Hi there i’m sophie and my sister is fleur. we’re just sharing this account lol.

Fleur:

Right so my friends keep telling me different things about my friend. and i’m getting mixed feelings. he’s quite shy so he might not just be telling anyone how he actually feels but i’m not sure lol.

- He told person A that he wouldn’t say no if i asked him

- told person B that he liked me as a friend

-When someone asked him hypothetically does he like me he said yes

-He is constantly flirty teasing me about stuff

-He is always buying me icecream or paying for days out.

- he was my prom date

- apparently on a school trip he was asked by a couple of people about me and he said just friends.

yeah so i’m not sure. kinda mixed reactions huh? Anywayyyy anyone who can help me figure this out then help😭😭😭😭

I made up with the guy in my life one weekend over text. Then tried texting during the week and he ignored me. Them when I asked if he was okay he said he was working. Then vet the weekend when I asked about it.. He said that he just rather text when we are going to see each other and not really about any of the other stuff….

I’m sure he is a narcissist. Is this typically narcissistic behavior?

Catcalling is bad but it is strange when you hear how widespread it is and how many women (often not really bombshell looking women) experience it - daily... I am glad I am not harassed but it makes you wonder "What is wrong with me?" or "Am I that ugly?" ...

I don't think I am ugly (anymore). I do dress feminine on most occasions.
I live in a small town with around 40k people in it, I do visit other bigger towns as well.

I sometimes get complimented, usually by older guys because they're bolder and more old fashioned (which I do not mind at all, it's nice). Guys my age usually just stare at max.

I do remember being catcalled ONCE and ever since I have actually gotten better looking and it's just not happening?

He's following this woman, but she's not following him. She's not a Instagram model or anything so she doesn't have a ton of followers. She consistently posts pictures of herself in her bikinis or in revealing clothes. These pictures are usually quite obviously focused on her butt, and they have captions which are purposely trying to illustrate that (for example, "suns out, buns out"). I don't have a problem with her personally (I don't know her) but it seems weird that my boyfriend likes all her photos when they are specifically focused on appearing sexual...

I would care less if she had TONS of followers (and therefore couldn't see my boyfriend's likes as clearly), but the fact that she only has a couple hundred makes me think she's seeing his likes and he wants her to see them.

Should I be concerned?

We are having a discussion with friends and want other peoples opinions on it! Do guys like girls who are very attractive from their face and are curvy but have a tummy or do they like women who have a perfect body but are average looking from the face?

I’ve been with this guy for 7 years now on and off. We had just got back together and things were going fine. We are both senior execs in different companies so he knows I travel a lot for work. It was my birthday and I had to be in NY for a business gala thing. A guy friend of mine who I’ve talked to once in the past but who I realized I wasn’t interested in messaged me happy birthday and wanted to hang out. I let my guy know everything and asked if he was comfortable with me meeting up with him and that it was fine either way. He said for me to do what I thought was best but then ignored me. I ended up meeting up for dinner with him but took a friend with me to buffer. I was dressed apropriately and didn’t flirt but he messaged the next day and wanted to come to my room etc but I said no. When my guy finally stopped ignoring me, we got back to normal and he said he’d just been busy and asked how it went. I told him what happened and suddenly it went 0-100. He said he knew I’d meet up with my friend and that I likely did something for him to proposition me. He said I kept wasting my time on people like that and called me a whore and lemon car.. he also said he figured that guy would slip something in my drink or that I’d eff my friend and he kind of hoped it happened so he could confirm I was defective. He laughed and said at least now he knew he would never marry me. He was incredibly cruel and said everything to try and hurt me. He has never called me a whore before but he has said slut once in the past when he got jealous. Is this justified? Did I do something that horrible? Is this normal? Sorry, just really upset and trying to make sense of it all.