Catcalling is bad but it is strange when you hear how widespread it is and how many women (often not really bombshell looking women) experience it - daily... I am glad I am not harassed but it makes you wonder "What is wrong with me?" or "Am I that ugly?" ...
I don't think I am ugly (anymore). I do dress feminine on most occasions.
I live in a small town with around 40k people in it, I do visit other bigger towns as well.
I sometimes get complimented, usually by older guys because they're bolder and more old fashioned (which I do not mind at all, it's nice). Guys my age usually just stare at max.
I do remember being catcalled ONCE and ever since I have actually gotten better looking and it's just not happening?